esdn84 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 so i've been talking to this guy online for a couple months. it was just a friendly conversation thing. its gotten more and more frequent in the last couple weeks. about a week ago he sent me his new number and we started texting, a couple days after that he called me and we spent a few hours on the phone. for the last couple days he's called me everyday and we've texted too. last night we hung out. now, I told him before we even met that I don't do random or casual sex. I also warned him that I'm kinda shy at first. so i get there and we talk for a lil bit and then he wants me to go to his friends house with him. so we go, and theres like 3 couples and an extra guy and they're all just hanging out. I don't really get into the conversation much but I try when I have something worth adding, I'm really shy in group situations. I like them though when we left we went back to his house and watched a movie. time got away from me and by the time it was over I could barely keep my eyes open. now, we'd been flirting and stuff the whole time so he'd mentioned something about spending the night before I'd even gotten there. I said something about leaving and he kinda acted like he wanted me to stay "if thats what you wanna do but u can stay if u wanna" with a really cute face lol. so the whole time I'm there, even sleeping right beside him, he doesn't make a single move. after we were laying down for awhile i did get up to lay my glasses across the room on the table and while i was up he moved to the middle of the bed. so when i laid back down the only comfortable way was to basically spoon him. after a lil while of laying like that i did put my arm around his waist, mostly just because it was the most comfortable way of laying. as bad as i know it sounds, about halfway thru the night i just couldn't take sleeping in jeans anymore so i kicked em off. in my defense I usually sleep in just a tee shirt, and I spend half the morning running around the house like that, not a big fan of pants. he knew I did it, but still didn't make a single move. he did ask if i was tryin to give him a hint and i laughed it off. when we woke up we talked for a few minutes and then I headed home. before I left I told him he has my numbers and to get ahold of me sometime and that I had fun and was glad to meet him. he did send me a couple messages earlier, just asking what was up and saying that he was watchin tv. soooooooo he knows i don't do the random thing....was the not making a move his being respectful, or is he probably not interested in more then friends. cuz honestly i could be down with either, he was fun to hang out with.
Confusedalways Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 You told him not to make a move-- and he didn't. He was respecting what you told him not to do. Doesn't sound like mixed signals at all.
Author esdn84 Posted June 6, 2010 Author Posted June 6, 2010 kinda. i told him he wasn't getting lucky. he didn't even try for a kiss. nothing.
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