nuke88star Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 i have no freaking clue how to do it, i usually do is if they want to hang out and obvi it doesn't work coz now i'm wicked goo friends with those girls but not their boy friend . i have no problem talking to them jut asking out forget it. the only reason i had girl friends was coz they asked me out. and what do you usually do on a first date dinner and movie sounds a little too well every one does it. and do it w/o creeping or pushing the girl away
CLC2008 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 You could say: "Would you like to go out sometime"? That's pretty much it.
Green Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 JUST BE YOURSELF... YOu know the confident version. If you wern't afraid what would you do???? You might just walk up to a girl and say "I Like you, lets do dinner!" Maybe you are more clever then that and you would start a conversation about something you know anything really "Who do you think would win in a fight Superman or Batman" "Well I think Superman would win, I mean hes strong and can fly, heck he could just shoot batman with a laser" "but Batman has a utility belt that would probably shoot kryptonite or something" Ok you get the point. You get out there and you try as best you can. Just make sure you 1) Aproach any girl you find pretty and TALK TO HER (Don't make excuses about how she looks busy or nows not a good time or you can't think of anything to say) 2) ASK HER OUT just sugest a time and place "Have dinner with me tonight" 3) Get her contact information a number works best just pull out your phone and ask her to put her number in 4) Finaly when you are on the date make sure you TRY TO KISS HER... she might duck or say somethin like she doesn't kiss on the first date... but don't ask just give it shot or else she might not even relize it was a date. 5) Rinse and repeat steps 1-4 with MANY GIRLS and don't be afraid of REJECTION because it will happen and the more it does the less of a big deal it is. REMEMBER LIFE IS A JOURNEY SO ENJOY IT. HAVE FUN AND THE GILR WILL HAVE FUN... HAVE FUN AND YOU WON'T EVEN CARE IF THE GIRL HAS FUN ACTUALY HAHAHAH SO stop asking US how to ask a girl out and just go out there and ask the girl "How do I ask you out".... hopefuly you can think of something better then that but if not go with it. Just do what ever comes to you mind as long as you are TRYING... BE BOLD
skydiveaddict Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 You could say: "Would you like to go out sometime"? That's pretty much it. wise words
seibert253 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 i have no freaking clue how to do it, i usually do is if they want to hang out and obvi it doesn't work coz now i'm wicked goo friends with those girls but not their boy friend . i have no problem talking to them jut asking out forget it. the only reason i had girl friends was coz they asked me out. and what do you usually do on a first date dinner and movie sounds a little too well every one does it. and do it w/o creeping or pushing the girl away A great first date is something simple and informal, getting together for lunch works great. Asking is simple, "hey you're fun and I like talking with you. Would you like to get together sometime for lunch"? If you get an instant yes, then she's interested. If you get the "well, I don't know", or "I don't usually have alot of time for lunch", then time to move to the next one. If you do it during the work day, you've got roughly an hour to get a feel for the person. You'll know whether you want to continue with another, something more formal, or bail and pass. If you want two ask for a 2nd, then at the end tell her you enjoyed her company, then ask if she's free for dinner, or whatever, sometime. Where I reside there's a minor league baseball team, so unless the girl is a total tool, that's a good 2nd date.
Psymon Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I think it depends on the situation. Where and how are you meeting women? One thing that works for me is if I see a woman who may interest me, I go and talk to her at that moment. If through talking to her I find that I'm enjoying the moment, I'll invite her to do something with me at that moment. For example, I'm a sucker for ice cream, so I'll ask her to go have ice cream with me. But it's in the moment!
BS76 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 i have no freaking clue how to do it, i usually do is if they want to hang out and obvi it doesn't work coz now i'm wicked goo friends with those girls but not their boy friend . i have no problem talking to them jut asking out forget it. the only reason i had girl friends was coz they asked me out. and what do you usually do on a first date dinner and movie sounds a little too well every one does it. and do it w/o creeping or pushing the girl away Learn synthetic Game. I'm a big fan of AFC Adam's material. You still get to be yourself, but he teaches how to improve your delivery and follow a particular sequence of steps that improves your odds. You could say: "Would you like to go out sometime"? That's pretty much it. That may work if she's already hoping he asks her out. If he's coming off like a creeper then "just being himself" isn't going to work either. He clearly needs to adjust his approach.
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