Cracker Jack Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 ^Cheating guys do that. Good men never do such things.
SarahRose Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Thanks for bringing that up, I was looking for a way to mention my next point. Women actually do want to take on as many males as possible to ensure a pregnancy and get the "best" genes. We've all heard stories of how girls in LTR's or marriages ended up sleeping with some other dude and gets pregnant. There are also girls who have posted on this very forum, that once they started having sex, they ended up sleeping with 30 guys in one year. Getting back to the pregnant thing, the size and shape of the human penis actually gives some hints on how promiscuous humans are. I'm only going by secondary research, buy science has shown that the more promiscious animals have larger penis's in comparison to their body size. The human penis is nearly triple the size of a gorilla and from what I've read, humans are much more promiscuous than gorillas. Chimps are known to be promiscuous and they are also better equipped than gorillas. The next theory I read, is that the coronal ridge of the human penis is actually designed to scoop out the sperm of a previous male. It's basically an anti sloppy seconds (thirds or fourth's etc) tool. Nature does have an natural birth control. Though it's not 100 successful, breastfeeding has been shown to prevent women from getting pregnant. So the male biology excuse of men have to sow as much seed as possible but women will hold out for the one male with the best genes is bunk. In reality men want to spread their seed but women also want as many partners as possible but you notice we in modern society try to twist that into men have to have as many women as possible but women only want one man.
somedude81 Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Yeah, I don't know where the idea of women waiting for the one and only came from. I'm betting religion had something to do with it.
A O Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 We might as well just ask ourselves if we want to start prioritizing our sexual satisfaction over trying to start a partnership. Welcome to a mans world - where male needs (sex) sits lower on the priority tree to female needs (relationships). There are guys who ONLY want to use women for pleasure.. and I've been meeting some like that. If they're feigning relationship interest to get into your pants, in other words, if they're duplicitous, then yes, they may well be potential users. On the other hand, if you haven't stated your (relationship) intentions from the outset, that is, you're being economical with the truth even though you know what you want(and yes men know also - they know the score every bit as much as you know it the other way around), then you too, are equally duplicitous in nature. All's fair in love ans war. Anyone who can give me tips about what to look for to identify a man who really wants something meaningful with a woman in addition to his sexual desire for her? You can start by being upfront with what you want - state your needs, set your boundaries and then watch and see if his actions match. .
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