ktjm Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 (edited) :(im going to try to make this short and simple. Met the man of my dreams..we were friends for months and he is a huge big wig in the community but I wont give that info right now. Stands for all that is honorable...fights for our country (hint). We got engaged I have never been happier with another human in my life. I have never felt so loved, we communicate great, great sex, and connected at the hip, if we aernt together we never go more than 3 hrs without contact. He was with me thru some bad times...surgury wich resulted in the loss of a job, he paid for it and told me to quit if I had 2 my health was more important. Anyway he lied about a month ago and said he had to go out of town for work...he didnt contact me for 3 days. When he came home he moved out and said he needed time but has been with me everday, he says he loves me and cant be without me. I have noticed for a couple of months some tx on his pjone coming in but he said it was work...we are open and honest so i never checked. He was going out of town again so b4 he left i took his phone and saw tx from another woman. I confronted him and he said its complicated....10 yrs ago he had a one nighter with her and she called him and they have a kid. She is supposedly married and dying and he said he was going to see them and they were going to tell the father bla bla bla....I know this is probably all bullcrap, but im so devistated im loosing it, my kids are loosing it. He was so good to us. Why would you invest all of this time money and just run off. He of course hasnt contacted me since he has been out of town this time but he still has some things here he will be back for. I really need help I dont think Im gona make it thru this. My family is in shock for me because they thought the world of him. I had an 18 yr marriage end and I just cant take this again. I would appreciate any feed back from anybody, i need to talk about this. Edited June 5, 2010 by ktjm
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