guojixiangzi Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 (edited) Everytime when I was having sex with my GF,She always said that she got the feeling of peeing and it made her uncomfortable. I didn't know whether I could bring orgasm to her.All she wanted me to do was to end up the sex as soon as possible.It seemed that all she did was just to satisfy my sexual impulse.Does anything wrong with her body?should we go to see a doctor? Edited June 5, 2010 by guojixiangzi
califnan Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 Everytime when I was having sex with my GF,She always said that she got the feeling of peeing and it made her uncomfortable. I didn't know whether I could bring orgasm to her.All she wanted me to do was to end up the sex as soon as possible.It seemed that all she did was just to satisfy my sexual impulse.Does anything wrong with her body?should we go to see a doctor? -------------------- I think you have posted in the wrong forum. This is Marriage & Life Partnerships .. Probably the intercourse is affecting her bladder. She could see a doctor, but I don't believe in sex outside of marriage, anyway.
tnttim Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 Everytime when I was having sex with my GF,She always said that she got the feeling of peeing and it made her uncomfortable. I didn't know whether I could bring orgasm to her.All she wanted me to do was to end up the sex as soon as possible.It seemed that all she did was just to satisfy my sexual impulse.Does anything wrong with her body?should we go to see a doctor? Good for you, you found her G spot;). Now this is a very delicate thing. You have to assure it is okay to let go, and to just relax. Assure her she will not pee on you, and if she does, that's why they make towels. Do not, I repeat do not pressure her in any way, let her be the judge of her own body. Once she relaxes and lets go, look out. She might have a squirting orgasm, do not freak out, it's not pee. If she doesn't, she will have an all body orgasm anyway and shake like she's having a seizure, her vagina will also spasm. Just take it slow, no pressure, she will thank you in the long run. Look up some info on the web if don't believe me. BTW there is no limit to how many she can have, it's not like a vaginal orgasm. But don't focus on making her do this, or it will take all of the excitement out of it. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
norajane Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 So, a few things: 1. She should try peeing before sex, so at least her bladder is empty at that point to minimize that feeling. It's common, due to the location of the bladder and vagina, and the pressure of sex make a girl think she needs to pee. 2. You may be hitting her g-spot with your penis. This can feel like her needing to pee, but it isn't that at all. Some women like it and can orgasm from g-spot stimulation, and others don't like the feeling at all. 3. Many women never orgasm from penile penetration alone, or have difficulty orgasming that way. Your gf might enjoy sex a lot more if you stimulate her clitoris with your hand or give her oral, and give her an orgasm first. Then go ahead and have your own orgasm. You can also get a small vibrator to use on her clitoris during sex, or use your hand, or encourage her to use her own hand to stimulate herself while you are having sex with her. 4. Has she ever had an orgasm on her own? Does she masturbate? If she's never had an orgasm, it will be difficult for her to tell you what she needs in order to come. If that's the case, having her experiment by herself or with you, could really help improve your sex life. Once she's had an orgasm, she'll want more and she'll know what kind of stimulation is best for her.
Author guojixiangzi Posted June 6, 2010 Author Posted June 6, 2010 Thank you for your good advice.no matter how,I will try that
Author guojixiangzi Posted June 6, 2010 Author Posted June 6, 2010 Thank you for your good advice.no matter how,I will try that So, a few things: 1. She should try peeing before sex, so at least her bladder is empty at that point to minimize that feeling. It's common, due to the location of the bladder and vagina, and the pressure of sex make a girl think she needs to pee. 2. You may be hitting her g-spot with your penis. This can feel like her needing to pee, but it isn't that at all. Some women like it and can orgasm from g-spot stimulation, and others don't like the feeling at all. 3. Many women never orgasm from penile penetration alone, or have difficulty orgasming that way. Your gf might enjoy sex a lot more if you stimulate her clitoris with your hand or give her oral, and give her an orgasm first. Then go ahead and have your own orgasm. You can also get a small vibrator to use on her clitoris during sex, or use your hand, or encourage her to use her own hand to stimulate herself while you are having sex with her. 4. Has she ever had an orgasm on her own? Does she masturbate? If she's never had an orgasm, it will be difficult for her to tell you what she needs in order to come. If that's the case, having her experiment by herself or with you, could really help improve your sex life. Once she's had an orgasm, she'll want more and she'll know what kind of stimulation is best for her. What your said was quite right!I,alone with my GF,will follow your good suggestion to improve our sexual life.If I have another question,Maybe I will come to you and hope that you can help me the same.
Author guojixiangzi Posted June 6, 2010 Author Posted June 6, 2010 -------------------- I think you have posted in the wrong forum. This is Marriage & Life Partnerships .. Probably the intercourse is affecting her bladder. She could see a doctor, but I don't believe in sex outside of marriage, anyway. So sorry,I didn't notice that this forum is about Marriage&Life partnerships.I wouldn't want to say you are a conservative guy.Everyone can have his own opinion.I love my GF,and having sex is a kind of behavior to show my love.we've decided to get marry in the future.What we do now are trying to improve our sexual life.anyway,Thank you all the same.
Iconoclast Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 You lucky dawg! You and your girlfriend are on the cusp of discovering gold. Go do some research and take it slow.
tnttim Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 So, a few things: 1. She should try peeing before sex, so at least her bladder is empty at that point to minimize that feeling. It's common, due to the location of the bladder and vagina, and the pressure of sex make a girl think she needs to pee. 2. You may be hitting her g-spot with your penis. This can feel like her needing to pee, but it isn't that at all. Some women like it and can orgasm from g-spot stimulation, and others don't like the feeling at all. 3. Many women never orgasm from penile penetration alone, or have difficulty orgasming that way. Your gf might enjoy sex a lot more if you stimulate her clitoris with your hand or give her oral, and give her an orgasm first. Then go ahead and have your own orgasm. You can also get a small vibrator to use on her clitoris during sex, or use your hand, or encourage her to use her own hand to stimulate herself while you are having sex with her. 4. Has she ever had an orgasm on her own? Does she masturbate? If she's never had an orgasm, it will be difficult for her to tell you what she needs in order to come. If that's the case, having her experiment by herself or with you, could really help improve your sex life. Once she's had an orgasm, she'll want more and she'll know what kind of stimulation is best for her. Great advice
Shakz Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 All good advice and all that, and I hope it works out for you. The only thing I have to add is..........dude, you must be huge!
You Go Girl Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Or maybe you've just found her bladder. Have her bend her hips differently to see if it releases the pressure.
Author guojixiangzi Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 All good advice and all that, and I hope it works out for you. The only thing I have to add is..........dude, you must be huge! No,I am not huge .Actually I am an asian guy and have a moderate "scout".Maybe the reason is that I and my GF can't handle it very well and lack of expericence.And I learned a lot from your suggestions.
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