imstuckinatree3 Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 I have another somewhat obvious question about a girl, but just feel like i could use some input. I live in a neighborhood with a community pool, and with the new pool season, we also have new lifeguards. There is this one that i cannot get out of my head. I have been up to the pool about five times this season so far and she has been up there every time. I have chatted her up a little more than just the casual chit chat crap, but still nothing that in depth. But when im in the pool, she constantly has her eyes on me (im not drowning by the way, lol). Also, no matter how many people are in the pool or what she is doing, when i show up, she makes a point to say hello and ask me how i am doing (something she does to no one else by the way). So my somewhat obvious question is, should i persue her or ask her out? I know that lifeguards are kind of one of those supposedly unattainable desires, but i feel that this one may be different. She is attractive, has a good body, and on a good day is prob out of my league aestheticly. But my pool is mainly only young kids, my buddies and i are the only ones that go up there that are near her age (she is about 3 years younger than me), so i seriously doubt that she gets hit on at work. So i will prob try to get her number, but if i get shot down, things will get kinda akward at the pool, seeing as i am there a lot during the summer. Does anyone have any advice, because im thinking that im gonna talk to her a few more times so i can learn more about her then try to get her number. I think she will give it to me.
DanielMadr Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 She is showing you signs of interest. Man up and seduce her. Make a decision. There is no safe way to tell how it will end up. How high her interest level in you is and how it will progress later. You should man up and take the risk. Most of the time girls don't even look at guys -zero signs of interest - and are very much interested, so consider yourself lucky. I f you don't feel worthy...give yourself a slap for being stupid insecure pussy
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