cutieh Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 I use to know of this guy in my hometown the most we said to one another was hi and bye. He went to my high school and church. Anyways, I moved away and my best female friend wanted me to date the guy cause he works with her husband. Anyways, we hooked up over facebook he requested me as friend and we began to talk over text and phone. I am suppose to be going to visit him cause im going to visit my family there anyway. We were talking about how I wished my class reunion was at our school and asked me if i knew this girl that he had on facebook and that she had her class reunion on facebook. I said yes i know her and i went to school with her Then today he mentioned another girl and said that she came to his town last weekend. or eventhough were not girlfriend and boyfriend yet just getting to know one another should i feel jealous cause i do i am mad. He says that he has no girls in his life. maybe there just his friends but im wondering is he trying to prosue them but not telling me or is he trying to make me jealous. I dont like games just come out and ask me if i like you or does he get the kick out of doing it.
phineas Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 It's not like he told you he went to lunch with them or hung out with them. He could be doing it to see if you reacted or he could be clueless & just be making conversation. You did say you knew these women also right?
TaurusTerp Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 I use to know of this guy in my hometown the most we said to one another was hi and bye. He went to my high school and church. Anyways, I moved away and my best female friend wanted me to date the guy cause he works with her husband. Anyways, we hooked up over facebook he requested me as friend and we began to talk over text and phone. I am suppose to be going to visit him cause im going to visit my family there anyway. We were talking about how I wished my class reunion was at our school and asked me if i knew this girl that he had on facebook and that she had her class reunion on facebook. I said yes i know her and i went to school with her Then today he mentioned another girl and said that she came to his town last weekend. or eventhough were not girlfriend and boyfriend yet just getting to know one another should i feel jealous cause i do i am mad. He says that he has no girls in his life. maybe there just his friends but im wondering is he trying to prosue them but not telling me or is he trying to make me jealous. I dont like games just come out and ask me if i like you or does he get the kick out of doing it. You are being unreasonable. 1) You aren't dating, he has no obligation to you anyway. 2) Unless you left something out, he has done nothing you need to be jealous of.
Author cutieh Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 you are being unreasonable. 1) you aren't dating, he has no obligation to you anyway. 2) unless you left something out, he has done nothing you need to be jealous of. hey no what im saying is that he is bringing them up as if he is purposely trying to make me jealous! I didnt ask him abou them and he told me to not get a boyfriend cause he wants to be my boyfriend. But i told him we need to get to know one another.
Author cutieh Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 it's not like he told you he went to lunch with them or hung out with them. He could be doing it to see if you reacted or he could be clueless & just be making conversation. You did say you knew these women also right? yeah i know them, but not really close to them! But him telling out the blue. But just cause he's not saying it doesnt mean they didnt.
Mrs.Smith Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 As a woman I can relate with you... I do think it is a little silly as I'm sure you do. If you really like him its natural to expierence a little jealousy. But try not to let it bother you... he may just like the fact that you two have friends in common.
phineas Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 yeah i know them, but not really close to them! But him telling out the blue. But just cause he's not saying it doesnt mean they didnt. does he mention any guys you might know at all?
Serenitynow Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 I dont like games But you are coming on here to ask strangers to give you an answer instead of contacting him directly. Thats playing games as well. This is the problem, everyone thinks everyone else only plays games, but they never think they do.
Author cutieh Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 does he mention any guys you might know at all? no he does not
Author cutieh Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 but you are coming on here to ask strangers to give you an answer instead of contacting him directly. Thats playing games as well. This is the problem, everyone thinks everyone else only plays games, but they never think they do. no it is not i'm just not putting up with his bullcrap. I dont need to argue with him about him playing games. When a man does this i see it as immaturity and i want to see what he will do. And he's letting me know that he is a game player. Or he thinks im stupid. I dont have time for that so i cut him off.
newdawn Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 It might be nothing if it's just making conversation and doesn't continually happen for months. But if it continues, and is a strong pattern then it's not good. A lot of immature insecure guys do this. At best, it's just to see if they can make you jealous which means you like them, and strokes their ego. At worst, they are checking to see if you will tolerate them playing around, which is really time to say bye! Either way, it's not love, it's game playing.
carhill Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 I dont have time for that so i cut him off. Good move. Too bad you didn't get a brake job out of it first, though. Remember that for next time Men who are interested in *you* don't ask you about other women, they ask you on *dates*. Simple. Good luck
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