Pyro Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 For those of you who claim that being a jerk is the way to keep a woman around, I am curious to know some examples of being a jerk.
USMCHokie Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 Being a jerk attracts the kinds of women I'm not particularly interested in, so there is no draw to being a jerk. Many of my male friends have all the qualities of a good guy and they are all married or with great women. But to each their own.
alphamale Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 getting in arguments, drinking too much, keeping your own needs first, lying, scamming on other women, not liking her friends, being mean to her pets, being unreliable
kdark Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 I always just assume that when a guy says being a jerk gets you women, I just interpret it as just asserting yourself and not getting walked all over.
Author Pyro Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 getting in arguments, drinking too much, keeping your own needs first, lying, scamming on other women, not liking her friends, being mean to her pets, being unreliable details Alpha. I always just assume that when a guy says being a jerk gets you women, I just interpret it as just asserting yourself and not getting walked all over. big difference IMO.
alphamale Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 details Alpha. . i think i have given more details than anyone else so far
Author Pyro Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 i think i have given more details than anyone else so far and you think those things will keep a woman around? If so its obviously a very unhealthy relationship. Is that somethign you guys desire? I thought we all wanted happy and healthy relationships. Being yourself seems less stressful.
xRJ85x Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 Jerks attract girls. Confidence and humor attract women. The difference is the former has low self esteem and the latter has high.
Trimmer Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 i think i have given more details than anyone else so far But that leads to the obvious - but implied - next part of the question: how do those behaviors work out for you in attracting and having the kinds of relationships you seek in your life?
Author Pyro Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 yeah Alpha. You have admitted that you are in the middle of a dating slump. I wonder why.
skydiveaddict Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 girls love the thrill of the chase. The jerk certainly has an upper hand.
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