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just a break vs. break up


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my live in boyfriend of 4.5 years is staying at his parents house right now. i kicked him out on monday. right now i'm faced with a decision to either try to make this relationship work or break up with him.

 

our relationship problems:

i have anger issues

he doesn't have a job

 

over the past about 2 years i also slowly started to dislike him, he's extremely talkative to the point that i want to jump out the window sometimes. he's also overly critical. he calls it communication. i dealt with it incorrectly: i stopped talking to him about my needs for fear of a 3 hour conversation. now i'm sad to say that he doesn't even know me.

 

we talked the other night and he's willing to make the changes that i need. he wants us to be together so bad.

 

i'm not so sure though. i'm craving my independence. and, i'm not sure if i want to make the changes to make this relationship work.

 

what do you guys think?

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I think you want out... and that's okay.

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