counterman Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Let's see, I have had a girl give me her number and, when I texted her soon afterwards, she did not reply. Then, weeks later, when I saw her again, we spoke more and I asked her if we could meet up and she told me to add her facebook. I told her I did not have facebook and gave her my email instead. To this date, she has not emailed or added me. I don't think she ever will This was soon after a break-up. The worst excuse I have ever heard was "my phone is stuffed up". There was something fishy about it even though her phone did look quite dilapidated, with tape holding the battery and phone together. But yes, I ended up with her number, she didn't reply and I didn't bother with her. Oh, not to forgot to mention that she tried to say that she had a "busy" timetable. Chhyeah right. So yeah, I find that most girls just give out their numbers anyways, even if they're not interested in the guy. To be honest, I wouldn't care if a girl just said "no, I am not interested". All I will do is just chuckle and say "okay:)" and really hold no hard feelings.
mixwell Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Quick question that came to mind today...ladies, what do you do if a guy asks for your number but you're not interested and don't really want to hear from him again...? Do you: (A) Say "No, I'd rather not give you my number" (B) Give him silly excuse why you can't give it to him © Give him your number and hope he doesn't call you (D) Give him your number and ignore any of his calls (E) Give him a fake number (F) Other The only reason I ask is that I was at a going away luncheon thing today, and there was this intern who I'd never met who was leaving to go to a different office in the building. I talked to her for a bit during the lunch and then asked for her number as we all were about to leave. She gave me her number, but afterwards, I felt like I had put her in an awkward spot...and I almost felt bad... Started wondering whether she just gave it to me with no interest in hopes that I'd lose the number or just not call her... Any thoughts...? I would say since it is an intern that you NEVER met it would probly come off as if you were hitting on her.. I know this is a guy's perspective but if I were a chick I would simply say "I'm not interest most of the time" but if you appeared to approach her as a friend then maybe she gave it to you with a friends relationship in mind.. hmmm that one is a tough call.. I would still suggest maybe giving her a call and if you're interested possibly being a little flirty and gauge her reactions.. If you don't feel the vibe then maybe she just wants to be friends with you..
SarahRose Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Just curious what a guy would do if a girl he wasn't at all interested in asked for his number?
Pyro Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Just curious what a guy would do if a girl he wasn't at all interested in asked for his number? I would say that my GF wouldn't appreciate it.
Stockalone Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Just curious what a guy would do if a girl he wasn't at all interested in asked for his number? The truth. If I have a gf, I would tell her that. When I don't have a gf and I am not interested in the woman at all, I would tell her that I am flattered, but that she isn't my type.
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