aqlp Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 I'm 24 so I'm young but not too young, my girlfriend/ex-girlfriend is 27. We have been dating for two years. We have lived with each other for one. I cheated on her with her sister about a month ago. I thought the relationship was over she didn't seem happy and we wern't talking and I wasn't happy either. So with the relationship problems and our relationships ending I thought I should start a new relationship. I know I picked the wrong person to do it with and I should have waited till the relationship was done, but I traded some nude pics with her sister and ended up giving her a back massage. Then when I mentioned to my girlfriend that I was leaving she told me she wanted to work things out and spent a week showing me that she cared and was actually really trying. I still talked to her sister, but we wern't sending eachother any new photos and we mainly talked about what was going on in our lives. Two days ago my girlfriend thought something was up, logged into my computer, found the hidden folder with the pictures and broke up with me. I told her I wanted to try to work it out but she said she loved me but I crossed a line that was too far off limits and that I need to prove myself that I still care about her but she didn't know what I could do to. Any ideas?
ADF Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 My idea is that you need to leave both your ex-GF and her sister in peace. Disappear from their lives. Never contact them again. Cheating on a GF is bad enough. Justifying it with lame excuses, like she didn't seem happy or the relationship was basically over anyway, is worse. But cheating on your ex GF with her own sister is just beyond the pale. There are some things just too sleazy to recover from.
Dexter Morgan Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 not only did you cheat on her, you cheated on her with her own sister. There is nothing you can do to prove yourself. Just leave her alone and move on to your next victim.
Lauriebell82 Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 Sorry that this sounds harsh, but what you did was extremely sleezy. If I were your girlfriend I would break up with you and never speak/see you again. Ever. I don't think she is thinking clearly if she is considering taking you back. If you truley did care about her you would never have cheated on her with her SISTER. That is pretty low. Leave her alone and let her move on with her life and find someone who really loves her.
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