Alain Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 About a month and a half ago my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me. Our relationship had been rocky the last few months and I can't say I didn't contribute to the problem, but I felt it was fixable. She thought differently. Two weeks after breaking things off with me she starts talking and seeing another guy. She tried hiding it from me, but we were living together at the time and I eventually found out. Finding out that she already slept over his place was the most devastating experience I have ever had. Foolishly I tried to win her back. It would temporarily work, but then she would change her mind again. After that she just continued seeing the guy. We lived together so I would hear her phone ring every time she got a text from him. Every ring felt like a dagger to the heart and what was worse was that I knew exaclty when they were together and when she slept over his place. I went through this hell for two weeks until she finally moved out. After that she called me several times to "see how i was doing" since she was "worried." She even showed up at my place uninvited (she still had a key to my place). She wants us to be friends, but after the pain that I have gone through I don't think I could handle being friends...
ADF Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 I would bet any amount money your GF was having some kind of relationship with this new guy before you ever broke up. She is a cheater and liar, and just plain crazy to think you would ever want to be her friend. Tell her to get lost. She needs to return your key, and then never bother you again. No phone calls, no email, no text messages, no showing up at your place. She should have known that losing you altogether was a risk she took by lying, cheating and dumping you. Christ, she must be an absolute idiot.
Author Alain Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 (edited) Thanks for the reply. This guy was her resident assistant for her dorm so they were old acquaintances. One day they ran into each other on campus and caught up I guess. This was after our break up. I know because I read her facebook messages in which she gave him her number and such. Granted this was only four days after our break up and it was only a few days after that she ended up in his bed. So technically she didn't cheat, but given how fast she moved on the betrayal that I feel is basically the same. She definitely lied about it. I should have known she was like this. It only took her a month to move on from her last serious BF before me. AND she had two flings between him and me. How can girls like her move from guy to guy so quickly? Edited June 5, 2010 by Alain
skydiveaddict Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 do not accept friends as second best for her. let her go
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