CrownOvHorns Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Recently, my girlfriend of 19 months broke up with me for another guy that she really likes. She told me that she wants to be my friend, but I don't want to take a front row seat to what's happening in her new relationship. Her new boyfriend also started to text me, rubbing in the fact that she's with him. I asked if she loved me but she said she didn't, and I don't know how she can stop loving me after only a few days. I really want her back but I don't know what to do.
ADF Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Whenever someone dumps you out of the blue, you can be sure the out-of-the-blue part was on your end only. I would bet any amount of money your ex-GF started some kind of relationship with this guy before your break up. Don't be this woman's friend. How the heck can someone leave you for someone else and then expect to be your friend? It's absurd. She treated you like garbage, and she doesn't deserve your friendship. Plus, as you say, why should you sit and watch her with this other guy? Don't torture yourself. Put the idea of getting her back out of your mind. She's no good for you.
feelinggood Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 i'm in the same situation as you. the only difference is i initiated the break up, and he moved on with another girl after few days. the break up was 2 months ago, and i'm still feeling the pain like day one. he still msg me and tell me he missed me and the time we had together, but i dont know what is his intention, cause he's still with that girl when he did that. anyway, i've decided to just let it be. it seriously hurts a lot and i believe it's getting unhealthy cause i'm not eating and thinking rationally. i hope all these will be over soon. good luck mate.
Author CrownOvHorns Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 I texted him telling him to f*** off a while ago (Getting the number off my now ex, who he was harrasing at the time), and I think he saved my number. She liked him before she met me, and then she went through a period where she didn't like him at all. She only started liking him again a month or two ago. She's also been texting me telling me that she still loves me and wants to be with me, but I'm not so sure about that because she's still with that guy.
redmelon Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 this breakup is a blessing. she is immature and causing drama for you. cut her out completely so you can begin to heal. down the line you'll be able to look back and see that she sucks.
Author CrownOvHorns Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 It was a mistake to stay in contact with her. She was telling me that she'd "always love me" and then the guy came over. Just found out she got rid of all the stuff I gave her. I dunno whether to believe her or not. She could just be saying that because that guy's over. But I'm not taking any chances.
Author CrownOvHorns Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 (edited) I'm going to initiate NC. For my sake. Edited June 5, 2010 by CrownOvHorns
Author CrownOvHorns Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 UPDATE: She's been contacting me about what she and her new boyfriend do. If you know what I mean. So I've decided to delete her social networking profiles. (Which she holds dearly) Next time she should remember to change her passwords.
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