jack5100nv Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I have been seeing this girl and talking to her on the phone for past 1 month. Need some advice what the following means 1. If I ask her her fav food or movie, she does not ask the same I would imagine if you want to keep someone happy, you have to know them and what they like. So if someone is not interested in knowing what I like, does that means she does not care for me or is it just her personality? 2. If I start talking about something that interests me, she says she has not interest in it. 3. During the conversation she has said she does not want to talk about it Basically, I cam talk to her about what interests her and what she wants to talk about. Isn't a happy relation based on you can talk about anything with your partner and share what's on your mind? Girls help me, what does it mean. She has however mentioned that she likes my personality, my intelligence, and my conversation style. I find her physically attractive and honest and direct. I am concerned that if we get into a relationship, she might not care about what I think or what I like.
bigsby2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Girl I'm with is like this and she's pretty self centered, not saying this is the same case here. But she normally doesn't care about my view on things. Led to problems later on.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Sounds like she has poor social skills and she is not that interested in you.
OceanTropic Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Sorry but she's just not that into you. When people have a connection, or really "click", they reciprocate, or at least PARTICIPATE. Move on, there will be someone better with whom you won't have to worry about these things. Promise
USMCHokie Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Agree with all the others. She's not that into you, and she doesn't sound like a very interesting person herself...
ADF Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Frankly, it sounds like your GF is a bit self-absorbed and insensitive. You're not demanding she like everything you like. But to simply refuse to enagage in any conversation about anything not about her is idiotic.
jamal Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 She clearly does not want to be part of your world. Move on. There is a difference between being an introvert and not being interested.
somedude81 Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Honestly things aren't looking good. But you know what? Don't quit till you actually tried. Ask her on a date, try to kiss her etc. Go down swinging but don't get too invested in her. Make a move, the sooner the better.
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