Kang Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Regardless of what everyone else says, you are ABSOLUTELY right op. But still don't have a son, theres no reason for him to be like that when he could be successful one day.
Maxxx Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 WOW How many times have you been done wrong before you came up with that???? Either way OP its uncalled for I have been kicked a few times when I am down also but that is still no reason to act like this... What a shame
VertexSquared Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 He's 100% trolling. I feel like I am shouting to the void, here. Why people aren't seeing this by now is beyond me.
Woggle Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Do you notice the abundance of women posters who openly discuss their involvement with married MEN in the (forum I stay away from because it would most likely drive me into a verbal attack) Other Man/Woman forum? That's right. Married men cheating on their wives... Blah. I notice how many of these women are also married and it seems that being married is the only way a man can truly keep a woman's attraction.
BS76 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Our parents (especially our mothers) and the media pretty much lie to men from birth about how to be respectable human being to the opposite sex. Be a gentlemen to women and treat them with respect. Be honest and truthful. Take school seriously, don't hang out with the "wrong" crowd or get into drugs. Get a higher education and get a stable and high income 9-5, a house, and a white picket fence. This is pretty much what our mothers and the media tells us we need to do to be a desirable male to the opposite sex. But guess, what? It's a crock of sht. I know it and you know it.. This much I agree with, men are socially conditioned to be men who they're told women will be attracted to. That's incorrect. Those characteristics we're raised to think women want aren't what generates attraction, they're traits they want in men whom they already find attractive and want to have long term relationships with. That's the key distinction. For women who are just looking for hookups or nothing serious, the cad/thug is the popular male archetype that gets the booty call. Just the way it is. Luckily for you, me, our sons, and so on, the pickup community figured out how "nice guys" can get women like the "bad boys". Game is a learnable skill and when you boil it all right down it's just a narrowly focused version of public speaking. This is great because you can still be all those great things AND get the girl. You just have to put in the work it takes. And make no mistake, it's work. And you need to have or develop a thick skin to take the rejection that comes when you're just starting out. If you can stick with it you can really improve your options and take control of your dating life.
Citizen Erased Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Have you ever noticed how those happy relationship threads tend to the same few women on there every time. I appreciate them but they represent a very small group. You want to know WHY? Those few women are the only ones that haven't left this place in disgust because of what this forum has turned into. All I see these days are threads exactly like this one and women are made out to be pretty much not worth notice for this poor perfect downtrodden men that have never done anything wrong, why won't women give them this and that etc etc. Go have a look on the infidelity forum, cheating etc. The MAJORITY of threads are women that have been cheated on by MEN. The OW forum, full of women that MEN are cheating on their WIVES with. If there should be anything, it should be the betrayed wives and girlfriends that overtake this place with woe is me tales. But they haven't. I wonder why....perhaps because they direct their anger at the person that harmed them, not on a gender. You only see what you want to see Woggle. You love being how you are, you like being different and downtrodden and bitter. It's what fuels you. And that goes for your little band of brothers too.
Maxxx Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 I honestly just can't push myself to emotionally invest in any woman ever again. I go out looking solely for sex and have had some success. I hate to beat the mysoginistic horse here but the heart of a woman is quite a fickle thing, one day you're a stallion and the next day you're nobody to them. Best thing to do is keep women at an emotional distance and assert your place as the master of the interaction, ironically i've had the most success doing this. I have to say I agree with whats in bold... I am in a VERY loving relationship now but whats to say that can't change at the flip of a hat. And not on my part mind you....... I know I am committed to my woman but I do fear that she may change her mind about me down the road. I always had that feeling but after I have seen many threads on here of the "I'm not sure I ever loved him" type I am even more fearful of that happening now.
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