Mrs.Smith Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I'm new to the forum, I'm still not quit sure what I'm doing (never used one before) anyway... forgive me if this has already been discussed... I was just curious... Do all men fantasize about other women? Whether its a past relationship, the girl at the coffee shop or that hot actress. Do all men fantasize about these women, or just the ones who are un-satisfied? I get that all men are visual creatures and noticing that the girl at the coffee shop has great breasts is probably very common, but is it common for him to fantisize about her later? Or maybe he had a great sex life with a past relationship, would he still think about that later on down the road? I'm just trying to dig into the male brain a little
witabix Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I'm new to the forum, I'm still not quit sure what I'm doing (never used one before) anyway... forgive me if this has already been discussed... I was just curious... Do all men fantasize about other women? Whether its a past relationship, the girl at the coffee shop or that hot actress. Do all men fantasize about these women, or just the ones who are un-satisfied? I get that all men are visual creatures and noticing that the girl at the coffee shop has great breasts is probably very common, but is it common for him to fantisize about her later? Or maybe he had a great sex life with a past relationship, would he still think about that later on down the road? I'm just trying to dig into the male brain a little You will only need a little shovel for that. Can't speak for all men. I do find myself remembering past experiences, the good ones, with a warm smile. Fantasizing about women I see or actresses, never. Its not about being fulfilled with current sex life, it is nice to recall the good times. I occasionally take a trip down mammary lane just for the heck of it.
Krytie TV Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 It doesn't have to be unhappy men. It can be a friend or the neighbor's wife... hardly ever someone famous. This fantasizing in many contexts is no reflection on how happy they are with their partner.
Author Mrs.Smith Posted June 4, 2010 Author Posted June 4, 2010 I really appreciate straight forward answers, thank you guys I find that a lot of men like to sugar coat things if a woman asks them a direct question. Anyway, I am thankful I found this site... I have been wanting to dig into the male brain for as long as I can remember. Can I borrow that shovel?
Shakz Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 I'm new to the forum, I'm still not quit sure what I'm doing (never used one before) anyway... forgive me if this has already been discussed... I was just curious... Do all men fantasize about other women? Whether its a past relationship, the girl at the coffee shop or that hot actress. Do all men fantasize about these women, or just the ones who are un-satisfied? I get that all men are visual creatures and noticing that the girl at the coffee shop has great breasts is probably very common, but is it common for him to fantisize about her later? Or maybe he had a great sex life with a past relationship, would he still think about that later on down the road? I'm just trying to dig into the male brain a little I'm not sure I follow. Do you mean fantasizing generally, or while having sex? Each guy is different in either circumstance. I can say that I've never fantasized about an actress, or any waitress. Neither have I fantasized about a former lover. My fantasies tend to be situational and anonymous.
Author Mrs.Smith Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 shakz... hmm... I didn't even really think about that. Either or I guess... The subject came up with a friend of mine... My husband is very respectful of me, even if he notices other women he would never let me know, make a comment or do it in front of me. Her husband on the other hand has no problem gawking at other women in front of her and even making comments on how hot they are... I've always been kind of curious anyway but it got me thinking... is it really ALL men or just the male stereotype? Is just men who are unsatisfied or is it just a common thing?
jackson30 Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 Speaking only for myself, yes to all the above. I fantasize about other women all the time, some I know, some I don't, during sex and at times not during sex.
Author Mrs.Smith Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 Jackson... are currently in a relationship or are you single?
Green Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 I would have to say that my guess is most men fantasize from time to time. I have a gf and if she asked me this question I would just say "No never!"
Author Mrs.Smith Posted June 5, 2010 Author Posted June 5, 2010 does it make a difference? wether you are in a relationship or not?
You Go Girl Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 I would have to say that my guess is most men fantasize from time to time. I have a gf and if she asked me this question I would just say "No never!" Great way to show respect, by lying.
seibert253 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I love my W with all that I have. I truly would lay down my life to save hers. But yes I do fantasize about other women. Sometimes multiple times a day. It may be a total stranger I see on the street, a pretty young college girl at the gym, or a friends wife. I'm not particular. But, at the end of the day its a fantasy, nothing else. I never have, nor never would even attempt to act upon them.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Proof that no matter what you do for a guy, men care more about quantity then qualitity. So what does this tell me? No point in trying since either way the outcome is the same. You try with a guy, he will still want to bang other women. You don't try with a guy, he will still want to bang other women. So why try? Men certainly don't offer more loyatly. Women can't win either way. Take care of a guy, have his kids, destroy your body, and he is oggling the college girls at the gym. Why? Because that's what's important at the end of the day.
CLC2008 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Proof that no matter what you do for a guy, men care more about quantity then qualitity. So what does this tell me? No point in trying since either way the outcome is the same. You try with a guy, he will still want to bang other women. You don't try with a guy, he will still want to bang other women. So why try? Men certainly don't offer more loyatly. Women can't win either way. Take care of a guy, have his kids, destroy your body, and he is oggling the college girls at the gym. Why? Because that's what's important at the end of the day. There is truth to that from a mathematical standpoint. It ties into when you hear men say that they treat dating as a numbers game.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I always took that comment to mean the amount of women they had to date before they found one that woule accept them.
CLC2008 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I always took it to mean that they want to spread their wild oats.
jackson30 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Jackson... are currently in a relationship or are you single? long long time married
Jersey Shortie Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I always took it to mean that they want to spread their wild oats. Interesting. Maybe we should ask?
Bangle Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I fantasize about a lot of women, they get stored in my wank-bank for later on, I am 22 and have no priority of settle down just yet, I have got a lot of time left to get it all out before committing to one woman.
taiko Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 It depends upon where the line is drawn between noticing and fantasizing. It could be said that when a man sees her his first thought is what will my penis feel like inside of her. If he takes a second glance he is thinking what would it take to get my penis inside of her. Going beyond that however is comparatively rare.
Author Mrs.Smith Posted June 6, 2010 Author Posted June 6, 2010 I guess as women we can't comprehend why you men would even want to. I know that when I fantasize the only person in them are my husband. That's another question... As a woman my fantasies are very intimate and detailed... As for men, are they just little thoughts that pass through your mind or are the full on fantasies?
Bangle Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 That's another question... As a woman my fantasies are very intimate and detailed... As for men, are they just little thoughts that pass through your mind or are the full on fantasies? Not every man is wired the same way, as for me they are usually full on fantasies. I used to fantasise about my ex's best friend when I was in a relationship with her, it never went anything beyond that, but to me fantasies are fantasies and will always remain as a figment of my imagination.
jackson30 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 That's another question... As a woman my fantasies are very intimate and detailed... As for men, are they just little thoughts that pass through your mind or are the full on fantasies? some of both, but they're just thoughts in my brain, they never lead anywhere
MrNate Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Proof that no matter what you do for a guy, men care more about quantity then qualitity. So what does this tell me? No point in trying since either way the outcome is the same. You try with a guy, he will still want to bang other women. You don't try with a guy, he will still want to bang other women. So why try? Men certainly don't offer more loyatly. Women can't win either way. Take care of a guy, have his kids, destroy your body, and he is oggling the college girls at the gym. Why? Because that's what's important at the end of the day. There you go again.
MrNate Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Yes, we fantasize, and we do it often. It will cover all types of women. No, we'll never feel guilty about it (jersey). It reminds us that we're heterosexual.
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