beachwrangler Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Alright I've been with my current gf for 5 months now Im 23 shes 20. We both love each other very much, she tells me Im her world, and we have future plans together. But yesterday morning she was texting somebody at 8 am bc she had spent the night. So she went downstairs and while she was down there I checked who she was texting which btw is the first time I have done this but to find out she was texting this guy she use to have a thing for and he had a thing for her. He was sending her texts with a heart and calling her booface and saying how he missed her and she replied with i miss you as well. They texted the entire day while me and her were at the beach. It just seems sketch I dont like some dude she use to have a thing for sending her hearts at 8 in the morning and callin her boo like wtf. Thoughts on the situation would be appreciated thanks.
Cantcope Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 This is going to sound harsh, but with my new found strength, I'm finding that truth is best. Dude.....get out. NOW! This is no good. If after 5 months she is already texting someone else, you can't trust her. Trust me....these things really stick with you. 6 months, 1 year, 3 years down the road, this will still be in the back of your mind. You will see her sneaking around texting at some point and you will IMMEDIATELY think it's a guy. You WILL find yourself checking her phone from time to time now, just to ease your own mind. It gets obsessive....TRUST ME! If she misses him so much, why is she with you? When you have a fight, is she going to run to him? Maybe...maybe not. But if you don't hear from her....know where your mind will go? To her running off to him. Save yourself the heartache. I'm sorry.....
Disintegration Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I don't think it is appropriate for your gf to be texting a guy she was interested in and telling him how much she misses him while being with you. Even when she is spending time with you she is thinking of him, which isn't right. You should talk to her about the texts you discovered and see what she has to say. I assume she will either get pissed 'cause you were checking her phone and some how turn it around, or she could apologize and stop talking to him once and for all. It is still early on in your relationship but you've already been shown you can't trust her. I think you'll want to believe in her however I also think you'll probably be investigating her phone from now on to be sure she isn't lying to you. Do you really want to love your life like that?
BlkAzian Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I agree.. get out.. that is not a good sign and plus u two are way too young to be so serious. Its good to have someone dont kid yourself.. what she did was disrespectful.
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