mike1988 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I haven't had much luck with women...but in the last six days I've had sex with two different women, one whom I met at an Airport and the other whom I met online. Last week, about one hour after I posted a thread on here concerning how I was not able to get woman, I met a Spanish woman (chubby, 32 (although she looked younger) who worked at a restaurant at an Airport and waited on me. I was feeling a bit down self esteem wise, but her co-worker approached me and told me that she "thought I was cute". Lucky for me, my flight wasn't leaving for another 12 hours and I was going to have to stay at the airport all night. She came out with her coworkers for a cigarette while I was smoking outside and I flirted and asked her out for the night. She agreed. She got off work, we went to her car, went to a bar where her friends were meeting and all of her friends and girlfriends really liked me. Then, she took me back to her house. I watched TV while she took a shower...she came out and asked if I'd rub lotion on her...I did which led to pretty intense sex and the first time I've been able to ever achieve orgasm inside a woman (with a condom, of course). We hurriedly did it again in the morning before I had to catch my flight. We've been keeping in touch via text messages and phone calls. Two days later, I was at a public pool and met another woman, average looking, 31 years old, who was flirty with me. I asked for her number which she gave and since then she's been hinting at wanting to "fall asleep in my arms". To top that off, I've been talking online to a girl who lives in my area. A single mom, 26 years old. Sure enough, she wanted to hang out while she ran a quick errand and while she doesn't seem like the "relationship type", her and I had intense quickie sex in the backseat of her car. So...a few questions. First of all...what the hell is happening to suddenly in 6 days change me from this low self esteem guy who can't attract woman, to having two different women in 5 days and having a third seemingly attracted to me? Also, why can I never get a girl my age? I'm 21. I've been with women who are 26, 32, 35 and 39 years old. Third, I've been desiring "milfs" and "chubby" girls less and less...and the hot hot girls more and more. What's up with that? Those ages mean the median age of the girl I get with is 33 years old.
MrNate Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 That's the rollercoaster of life bud. But what I do know is that this should be the end of your depressing 'I can't attract women' threads.
brainygirl Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Well, you were the one who took your own pants off for a bunch of quickies (please tell me you used a condom with them!) what was going through your head (the on on your neck) at the time? Second, I hate to be mean, but why flirt and take their numbers if you aren't interested in them? Third, how un hot could they possibly be if you screwed them within hours of meeting them? Four, is it possible that because you don't consider these women your target audience, you are less nervous with them and more charming than you are with the women you actually ARE interested in?
Morals Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Well, you were the one who took your own pants off for a bunch of quickies (please tell me you used a condom with them!) what was going through your head (the on on your neck) at the time? Second, I hate to be mean, but why flirt and take their numbers if you aren't interested in them? Third, how un hot could they possibly be if you screwed them within hours of meeting them? Four, is it possible that because you don't consider these women your target audience, you are less nervous with them and more charming than you are with the women you actually ARE interested in? Are you referring to the "I don't care about how they perceive me" audience? I think I can agree with the ideology behind "If I don't care about them, my own confidence goes up". Which is a baffling concept if you think about it. You would think you would be MORE confident with a target audience, but who knows...this is human emotions we are talking about.
brainygirl Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Are you referring to the "I don't care about how they perceive me" audience? I think I can agree with the ideology behind "If I don't care about them, my own confidence goes up". Which is a baffling concept if you think about it. You would think you would be MORE confident with a target audience, but who knows...this is human emotions we are talking about. I'm a teacher and deathly afraid of public speaking and crowds, but for some reason have no problem with being infront of students. (I teach high school, very critical crowd too)
Cracker Jack Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Yep, life definitely has a way of throwing surprises at you from time-to-time. Good stuff, man.
DanielMadr Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Which is a baffling concept if you think about it. You would think you would be MORE confident with a target audience, but who knows...this is human emotions we are talking about. That is SIMPLE. When you care about the target you are AFRAID that you will f@ck up an loose it. That's when confidence come to play. You believe that you are good enough for her and your fears don't have a chance to f@ck up your brain. Me personally, I'm terrified that another girl I don't like that much falls in love with me. And it happens every f@king time. Guilt trips, friends male and female suggesting to me to "Do her, man". Crazy Enjoy the One Night Stands.
TaurusTerp Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Just how life is sometimes man...last year I went 5 months without meeting anyone remotely interesting/interested to a span of 2 weeks where I was juggling 4 women at once...ended up dating one of them for 4 months, broke up, rinsed and repeated. Life is crazy. Too bad you can't ask girls to wait a few months or years
Author mike1988 Posted June 3, 2010 Author Posted June 3, 2010 Well, you were the one who took your own pants off for a bunch of quickies (please tell me you used a condom with them!) what was going through your head (the on on your neck) at the time? Second, I hate to be mean, but why flirt and take their numbers if you aren't interested in them? Third, how un hot could they possibly be if you screwed them within hours of meeting them? Four, is it possible that because you don't consider these women your target audience, you are less nervous with them and more charming than you are with the women you actually ARE interested in? First, when you don't have much luck with women and they want to have sex with you, and you find them atleast somewhat attractive, yeah not many 21 year old guys will turn them down. Two, I took her number because I DID like her. She was nice and outgoing. I never said I didn't like her. Third, the Spanish girl was beautiful and the other girl was pretty enough. I DO have standards. Fourth, IDK...maybe since the Spanish girl was a curvy sexy girl instead of looking like Salma Hayek, she was easier to talk to and go out with. Also, the ones that I really desire might not be that great anyways because they always have a cell phone attached to their head and look stuck up as if they know they're hot. Of course, I'd like it if I could actually have a gorgeous girl who is my age or close enough, but they're all taken. Again, I'm not the hottest guy on the planet: http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs238.snc1/8534_276952065060_503070060_9147901_8162137_n.jpg
brainygirl Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 First, when you don't have much luck with women and they want to have sex with you, and you find them atleast somewhat attractive, yeah not many 21 year old guys will turn them down. Two, I took her number because I DID like her. She was nice and outgoing. I never said I didn't like her. Third, the Spanish girl was beautiful and the other girl was pretty enough. I DO have standards. Fourth, IDK...maybe since the Spanish girl was a curvy sexy girl instead of looking like Salma Hayek, she was easier to talk to and go out with. Also, the ones that I really desire might not be that great anyways because they always have a cell phone attached to their head and look stuck up as if they know they're hot. Of course, I'd like it if I could actually have a gorgeous girl who is my age or close enough, but they're all taken. Again, I'm not the hottest guy on the planet: http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs238.snc1/8534_276952065060_503070060_9147901_8162137_n.jpg Well, I don't think you are that bad. But if you don't feel attractive you will project that. Second, I wasn't implying you had no standards. I am wondering if maybe you need to take a step back and think about what you want in a relationship and then instead of pursuing young, hot, beutiful women for the sake of having young, hot beutiful women, pursue women who are likely to share your relationship values and desires. And I bet at least afew of them will be quite pretty.
Author mike1988 Posted June 3, 2010 Author Posted June 3, 2010 Well, I don't think you are that bad. But if you don't feel attractive you will project that. Second, I wasn't implying you had no standards. I am wondering if maybe you need to take a step back and think about what you want in a relationship and then instead of pursuing young, hot, beutiful women for the sake of having young, hot beutiful women, pursue women who are likely to share your relationship values and desires. And I bet at least afew of them will be quite pretty. In my mind, it seems as though my confidence goes up if I can atleast say I'm able to meet and "get" women, thus increasing my chances of meeting a younger, hotter, better girl for a relationship. Does that make any sense?
Pfiend101 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I call bs to this entire thread. My spider sense is tingling.
Serenitynow Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I think women leave a scent on us guys. Kinda how a dog marks its territory You can be girl free for months, then as soon as you talk/make-out/hit it with 1, then the vault opens and all of a sudden you have women all around you. They can sense another women on you, COMPETITION between women is one of the best aphrodisiacs in the world.
Author mike1988 Posted June 3, 2010 Author Posted June 3, 2010 I think women leave a scent on us guys. Kinda how a dog marks its territory You can be girl free for months, then as soon as you talk/make-out/hit it with 1, then the vault opens and all of a sudden you have women all around you. They can sense another women on you, COMPETITION between women is one of the best aphrodisiacs in the world. That's what I've been thinking...then again...maybe we men look to deep into it and maybe it's just confidence we have from "getting laid" that attracts women who wouldn't have been attracted to us without our confidence.
TheBigQuestion Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 These are problems you want to have, my friend.
Author mike1988 Posted June 3, 2010 Author Posted June 3, 2010 These are problems you want to have, my friend. I suppose you're right. Now my next goal will be, now that I know I can atleast get women who are decent, upping my standards a bit....
Author mike1988 Posted June 4, 2010 Author Posted June 4, 2010 OP-- Dude, I'm not gay or anything, but you look perfectly presentable/attractive. Plenty of women would go for you. Second, what you said in your first post in the threat that you did was absolutely KEY. Even though you were feeling a little down, you did not let that prevent you from working your game. You gave yourself the opportunity to succeed. So many times I think a lack of success is generated because we can get down on ourselves, an opportunity presents, but we don't even try to succeed. So just keep doing exactly what you've been doing lately. It's working just fine. You've got it "figured out" now. Gratz. You really think so?
OceanTropic Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 First of all, if I was a guy who could please a woman 10 years my senior, I would be the proudest man on earth. Second, you probably weren't paying attention to any of the cute girls because you has such low self-esteem, which is maybe why they noticed you more. Cute girls are used to being checked out all the time, if they aren't, they feel that a man isn't out just to get sex, that he has some mystery and thats sexy. That could be one of the reasons why you got this "sudden onslaught of sex". lol Men my age don't approach me either. My youngest boyfriend has been 10 years older. Don't let the age thing bother you too much, its only 2 women. Be confident and it will show, women of all ages will approach you. And um...reminder: you just made a 32 year old cum. Why are you still complaining again?
Author mike1988 Posted June 4, 2010 Author Posted June 4, 2010 First of all, if I was a guy who could please a woman 10 years my senior, I would be the proudest man on earth. Second, you probably weren't paying attention to any of the cute girls because you has such low self-esteem, which is maybe why they noticed you more. Cute girls are used to being checked out all the time, if they aren't, they feel that a man isn't out just to get sex, that he has some mystery and thats sexy. That could be one of the reasons why you got this "sudden onslaught of sex". lol Men my age don't approach me either. My youngest boyfriend has been 10 years older. Don't let the age thing bother you too much, its only 2 women. Be confident and it will show, women of all ages will approach you. And um...reminder: you just made a 32 year old cum. Why are you still complaining again? Cum twice actually...and the one I just made cum was the 26 yr old in the back of her car last night. IDK...I guess maybe I've gone from 35 to 39 to 32 to 26...and maybe I'm craving dating a girl my age (I'm 21).
tincanman99 Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 You look like that PUA guy Tyler Durden I read about recently. Are you sure this thread is not a troll?
Author mike1988 Posted June 4, 2010 Author Posted June 4, 2010 You look like that PUA guy Tyler Durden I read about recently. Are you sure this thread is not a troll? Did I really just get compared to Brad Pitt???
Author mike1988 Posted June 4, 2010 Author Posted June 4, 2010 Just how life is sometimes man...last year I went 5 months without meeting anyone remotely interesting/interested to a span of 2 weeks where I was juggling 4 women at once...ended up dating one of them for 4 months, broke up, rinsed and repeated. Life is crazy. Too bad you can't ask girls to wait a few months or years LOL crazy stuff dude
gypsy_nicky Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 (edited) Op, your threads seem to focus on 3 things: you cant get women your age you sleep with older women you keep posting your pictures Now, judging from the way you present yourself on this forum, I would comment that a) your aiming too high for your age range b) the older women you sleep with are on par or less attractive than you c) women in the upper echelons of attractiveness don't find you that physically attractive and hence you keep posting your (pics) here to negate this and get positive comments here d) in doing c, you affirm that your not average but are in fact smoking hot and-- because you also justify this by sleeping with older women. sometimes man, the answer is right there in your face and your going around in circles failing to see things in correct perspective because you cannot accept what cards life has dealt with you. The other dude didnt compare you to Brad pitt but to the redhead PUA-tyler durden. Edited June 4, 2010 by gypsy_nicky
RedRussian Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 "The other dude didnt compare you to Brad pitt but to the redhead PUA-tyler durden." OP sees what he wants to see...
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