BlkAzian Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 My disabled soon to be ex husband isnt working anywhere he is 100 percent disabled from the military. I know that I was naive in thinking that his scitzophrenic behavior was normal, I wanted the kids to have a father. I left him and live with my family because he got to be so verabally abusive and started screaming at me at the top of his lungs and throwing things and ended up pulling a weapon on me.He also worked on my selfesteem and no matter what hardly any days went by when he didnt get mad at something with me. I walked on eggshells. My soon to be ex husband bought a game for our son. He got mad at my 9yr old because he didnt want to go to see a movie with him and wanted to go home and play his new game ,now he wants to see the other child and not our other son because of it. I dont think thars right. He told me he doesnt chase children, if they dont know that they are supposed to spend time with him then he X,s them out and told me he was just like his mother I guess to insult me. I told him I wasnt going to let him mistreat my son and make the children resentfull of one another.He doesnt have contact with his other children from a previous marriage because he cant get along with them and they are teenagers. He had the nerve to tell me that he can have more children and replace them and told me if I dont let him see the baby he is going to disappear and i wont be able to ever drop the baby off again, He was going to dissappear 4 a long time and the next time our kids would see him would be when he is in a cauffin. Yesterday when i was going to the market my little boy said mommy I dont like going that way Daddy's house is down there we dont have to go pass daddys house, i dont want him to try to do anything to you...
Author BlkAzian Posted June 3, 2010 Author Posted June 3, 2010 No... I consider myself black but my ancestry has chinese in it my great grandparents and those dominant traits came through me (funny how genes work supper pale skin soft hair and almond eye shape )but since i get mistaken for being that from other Asians mostly from the Philipines that is my profile.
DaisyLeigh Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 You need to contact your attorney. You also, IMHO, need to document every incident with him. He is acting in a very unstable and abusive way and I would do all I could to terminate his parental rights or at the very least, ensure supervised visitation. Maybe I am paranoid, but you read in the news every day about how men harm and even kill their own children. It is one thing to have a mental illness that is being treated, but it sounds like he is not even trying to help himself, and is abusing the children in the process.
Author BlkAzian Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 I hear you.. I am seeing an attourney I have been talking with my mom about how i felt he was unstable and might hurt the children..
Ms. Red Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I left him and live with my family because he got to be so verabally abusive and started screaming at me at the top of his lungs and throwing things and ended up pulling a weapon on me. You left for that which is understandable. What I don't understand is how you could for one time leave your children with a man who did those things. Father or not, you should protect your children from harm. He had the nerve to tell me that he can have more children and replace them and told me if I dont let him see the baby he is going to disappear and i wont be able to ever drop the baby off again Good!
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