Just when I thought it was getting easier.

[nes9]

My ex-gf broke up with me at the beginning of February. After a couple months of depression, things started getting easier in May. I finally thought I was getting over her as I kept no contact pretty well. The past week and a half or so, I haven't been able to get her off of my mind. I can't stop thinking about her all day every day... It's like I reverted back to square one out of no where, I hadn't even been talking to her but I feel almost as depressed about her as I did when she first broke up with me. This absolutely sucks. Makes me think I'll never get over her until I meet a new girl that is as cool as she was. Life suuuuucks right now UGH.

[sandiego]

Nes, I can appreciate what you're going through. I've been through a very similar experience.

 

I originally was broken up with back in the fall of '09. It sucked. After three months, I found a cool girl to date and I was finally over it...so I thought.

 

Then, the moment my ex gets a whiff of my new relationship, she tells me that she wants me back, and made a huge mistake. Unfortunately, I went for it. After a month, she left me again....this was back in February. I've cycled through the same thing you describe. March and April were horrible...May felt really good, I was moving on. Then June hits...and I'm a crying mess. WTF, I keep thinking?

 

I think it's totally normal to feel what you and I are feeling. The grief cycle is different for everyone. Over time, I know it will continue to get easier, but we'll have to cycle through the pain several more times to fully move on.

 

Keep you head up, know you're not alone....and the feelings your feeling are totally normal.

 

I know how hard it is, believe me! We'll get through it......

SD

[Bolts]

SD... we are sharing the same city and story...

 

They say it gets better... I must believe it does...

But yes... Feb - Now and it hurts like day one.

 

Really loving someone can suck... I feel your pain guys... we can do this, they did.