Woggle Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I'm living proof this is wrong. There are of course exceptions but this board itself proves that women tend to get bored with stable and content relationships.
stace79 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 There are of course exceptions but this board itself proves that women tend to get bored with stable and content relationships. I don't really agree. I think women (and men) tend to get sucked into a false sense of what a relationship or love really are. They sacrifice their well-being trying to save things that aren't worth saving because they don't know any better or because they're afraid to be alone. I don't think most women choose to be with *********s or in bad relationships -- I think they're afraid no one else will love them and they don't want to be alone.
Woggle Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I don't really agree. I think women (and men) tend to get sucked into a false sense of what a relationship or love really are. They sacrifice their well-being trying to save things that aren't worth saving because they don't know any better or because they're afraid to be alone. I don't think most women choose to be with *********s or in bad relationships -- I think they're afraid no one else will love them and they don't want to be alone. Then why don't they put this same effort into healthy relationships with men that treat them well? They will hold on to scum for dear life but get bored with a guy that is worth anything.
stace79 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Then why don't they put this same effort into healthy relationships with men that treat them well? They will hold on to scum for dear life but get bored with a guy that is worth anything. Because you and I can't tell someone that their SO is "worth anything". My mom really liked this one guy I dated for a month or so. He WAS a very nice guy. He wasn't bad looking and had a decent job and was very sweet. But I wasn't romantically attracted to him.
Sivok Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 (edited) they cant help if they aren't attracted to the nice guy. That's all there is to it. Woggle, if you were in a relationship with a girl, wasn't attracted to her, but logically she treats you like a God, would you stay with her? I wouldn't. To me attraction and emotion is everything, and I am victim of not always going for the good girls myself . Edited June 3, 2010 by Sivok
janie423 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 1. guy with Big dick that works well for me 2. guy with Big dick that works well for me 3. Mute guy 4. Good hygiene That's it. There is my list. this is hilarious . . . Sarah Rose, you're killin' me :lmao: I love a guy that shuts up, can't stand a big talker. One more thing. A guy can look like a flippin' model and have $100 bills falling out of his wallet, but if he opens his mouth and has bad oral hygiene (brown teeth, chipped or missing teeth), it is a deal killer. No exceptions.
janie423 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 If a man does not keep a woman in constant emotional turmoil there is a good chance she will get bored and leave. . . . or stay and develop cancer.
Woggle Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 they cant help if they aren't attracted to the nice guy. That's all there is to it. Woggle, if you were in a relationship with a girl, wasn't attracted to her, but logically she treats you like a God, would you stay with her? I wouldn't. To me attraction and emotion is everything, and I am victim of not always going for the good girls myself . True but you take the same nice guy and have him use and abuse these women and all of a sudden they are attracted. If you like to chase drama queens that is on you but I like to not put myself through that drama.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I resent this since I lost my job and am damn sexy sir. That made me laught Engadget!
Stung Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 If a man does not keep a woman in constant emotional turmoil there is a good chance she will get bored and leave. I am already very familiar with your agenda, Woggle, and am aware that there is no point in engaging you to discuss it. I wasn't asking you.
xxoo Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 There are of course exceptions but this board itself proves that women tend to get bored with stable and content relationships. Your relationship is an exception, right? I don't get it, Woggle. You have a loving, loyal, GORGEOUS wife (if that is her on your profile). You are the success story, among lots of failures. Why don't you give these guys some tips on how to choose a woman like your wife? Why not tell these guys what women like your wife are looking for in a man, so that they can attract a good woman like you have? If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
BeautifulMan Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 If a man does not keep a woman in constant emotional turmoil there is a good chance she will get bored and leave. Precisely. Keep her guessing what's next, staying inconsistent, letting her know you don't need her but you'll keep her around if she can prove herself. Your value > Her value Of course all of this is in the beginning stages I might add.
Woggle Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Your relationship is an exception, right? I don't get it, Woggle. You have a loving, loyal, GORGEOUS wife (if that is her on your profile). You are the success story, among lots of failures. Why don't you give these guys some tips on how to choose a woman like your wife? Why not tell these guys what women like your wife are looking for in a man, so that they can attract a good woman like you have? If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem. Yes it is. To be honest I don't know what I did to get her. I just feel I am damn lucky. If I hadn't ran into her on the boardwalk the day we met I would probably still be single. I think the stars just aligned.
kassy Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 If he can make me laugh, loves adventure travel, does sport and doesn't take himself to seriously then he's got me. There are lots of women who are looking for financial security, and lots who are looking for a nice man on their arm... usually these relationships/marriages are not ones I personally would envy. I think I stopped dating men based on looks at about 18. If you could see the guy I currently want to date, you'd believe me I don't date for looks (although personally I think he's gorgeous, I know that's not the general assessment of his looks). And his life situation certainly isn't going to win most people over
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