mortensorchid Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 Well now I'm just stunned. Stunned is all I can say... Last weekend I went to a BBQ and met up with this guy who contacted me through Facebook. I had known him for a while, it's not like he was a stranger. We went out to dinner, then the BBQ afterward. He said he wanted to see me again, I said that would be nice. He asked me to call him and I said I would. Today (Wednesday) I sent a text. I got a text back saying "Who is this?". I said I must have the wrong number, I was trying to reach ____. The person on the other end identified themselves as his cousin's girlfriend, he had used her phone the other week and he must have given her number as his. I apologized for intruding. This is where it gets strange. She (the cousin's girlfriend on the other end of the texting) said that he went back to his kids' mother. I have no idea if this is the truth or not, but I am cutting all ties. I had no idea that one can decide to go back to their kids' mother within 48 hours, but I don't want to know. I am ashamed that I got entwined in this white trash soap opera if I am being told the truth.
Serenitynow Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 Live and learn, nothing you did could have warned you of this till its too late. I also just went on a date with a girl recently, within a week she called me from 2 diff cell phones, then faded away, havent heard from her. RED FLAG
alphamale Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I am ashamed that I got entwined in this white trash soap opera if I am being told the truth. thats a shame mortensorchid
Jilly Bean Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 Orchid - you meet the biggest losers. You must be sheerly exhausted. Is this the guy who rejected you for the fat girl?
Star Gazer Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 How does a man's decision to return to the mother of his children make him "white trash"? Or a soap opera? Your characterization of recent events - including the "fat girl" situation - just astound me. Really.
Pink Cupcakes Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 How does a man's decision to return to the mother of his children make him "white trash"? I was wondering the same thing. It sounds like he only had one date with you, not was majorly hot and heavy with you, then dumped you.
Star Gazer Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I was wondering the same thing. It sounds like he only had one date with you, not was majorly hot and heavy with you, then dumped you. MC has had a string of first- and second-dates. This is how she justifies their decision not to see her again: by calling them names and putting them down.
Author mortensorchid Posted June 3, 2010 Author Posted June 3, 2010 (edited) MC has had a string of first- and second-dates. This is how she justifies their decision not to see her again: by calling them names and putting them down. I do not rip others apart in any way, shape or form, StarGazer. I assure you that nothing of the kind went down. You must admit, whether the information is true or not, this is very odd to be told this by another party. I only resort to anger if the situation warrants. I don't want to go through life being a bitter person, but having someone say things like that to me or others makes me all the more. I hope you don't treat other people around you like this. I would hope that by sharing these stories, which I felt was the point of this forum, that we can give comfort and security to others that we are not alone even though we feel alone sometimes. Our egos are at steak here, and it's ok to refer to someone in this manner, we're allowed to gloat a bit or express our anger. I, on the other hand, have never directly told others that I find them annoying here on this forum. I guess I am right to be bitter afterall. Edited June 3, 2010 by mortensorchid Additional information
Star Gazer Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 I don't think you have any reason to be angry or bitter, based on the threads you've recently posted. You've been on a couple dates and it didn't work out. So what? That happens to everybody. That doesn't make him white trash, and it doesn't make the other guy who chose to be with someone who's physically larger than you crazy. Your attitude needs to change if you have any hope of finding someone.
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