CARL45 Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 I have dated this woman two times last month. Both times I enjoyed myself and she has enjoyed herself. I asked her after the first day if she was free the next week she said that she would check because she had relatives coming over I said sure. I figured that alright perfectly reasonable. The next time I tried to set up she said she would be busy for a few weeks. I said yeah this is understandable because she's a teacher. She told me she has to do grades and she was moving to another class room. She also talked about school year not being done and how she is annoyed with that stuff. I decided to try and plan a date in later in the month like the 19th. I asked her if she was free and she said she was not because she was leaving on a trip. I also figured maybe this summer for her was just busy. At this point I was a little annoyed because I asked friend if it was a good sigh for someone that you think your trying to date to always be busy so much they can't have a date. He said that wasn't that there's always time for a date. Now I both agree with him and disagree with him. There's a part of me telling me that she's not interested in me anymore and there is a part of me telling me that I just meet her and that she may just be busy. I asked her tonight kind of in a joking manner if she was busy for the month and she said yes that she was very busy. I asked if her July was free and she said she didn't plan that far. I want your opinion on two things. Is it normal for me to feel annoyed about this? and secondly is this normal at the beginning of dating someone? I hate to say I feel embarrassed to be annoyed like this.
Serenitynow Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 People are A-holes and dont have the balls to just say "im not interested" They think by leading you on you are supposed to take the hint so they dont have to get their hands dirty. People like that should be beaten with bamboo and hung upside down in the town square for people to throw tomatoes at them PS she wants nothing to do with you
Confusedalways Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 One thing I think both genders have trouble grasping is: if s/he is into you, s/he WILL MAKE TIME FOR YOU, especially at the beginning of the relationship. Pushing schedules in advance that far is A COMPLETE COP OUT/ EXCUSE. And yes you have ever right to be mad/annoyed/frustrated etc. If she doesn't counter offer (ie: tuesday isn't good, what does your thursday look like?) SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. I'm so sorry she did that to you, because that's obnoxious, annoying and childish. NEXT.
Serenitynow Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 I have no issues with the person not liking me, we cant all like each other, I just hate the squirmy little weasels that beat around the bush instead of being upfront
Confusedalways Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 Exactly. And by her using her schedule that's just a total cop out
Mimolicious Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 She's not interested. If she was, she would make time to meet.
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