KingCrimson Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 We have already kissed on date#2. A couple of times halfway thru date #2, as well as at the end of the date. We even made plans then and there for date #3. if you remember my previous thread, she was going on vacation for nearly a month and shuffled around her plans to go out with me again the day before she left. It was a dinner date, meh, but it went well like the last few times. As we leave and we're walking back to my car I put my hand around her. She reciprocates and puts around my waist for a bit as we walk. I ask her if we're picking up where we left off when she gets back next month. She says yes, we both admit we're not dating anyone else. So it's all going good so far. As we near my car she gets on the phone to figure out where her friends are and where she needs to be dropped, so that threw a wrench into my plans of kissing or making out then. (if you rmember my previous thread, she already had tickets and plans to go see Sex and the City 2 with a bunch of friends later that night. And she did shuffle around her schedule to go out with me for a few hours before. I guess she couldnt miss the movie cause she already had tickets and plans, the movies a big deal for girls, and she is leaving for a month the next day). So I drive her to where some of her friends are waiting, I guess they'd just finished getting some drinks at a wine bar or something. One of them's waiting in a car on the street in front of a gas station. I pull into the gas station at one of the pumps, see some chick get out of the car and wave We go for a goodnight hug, but as I go in for the kiss she backs away and said something like "It's ok" or "I don't want one" or "not right now". I jokingly ask her, "Shying out cause your friends can see?" and she hurries out of the car and says she'll call me when she gets back from her trip. wtf happened? Sudden change of heart? Did she only say she intends to keep dating next month and put her hand around to be polite? Or, like some of my guy friends suggested, she probably got shy incase her friends could see ? Kiss just seemed natural givne that we'd already done it previous date, so I'm thinking why shy out now? On a positive note, which does make me think she got shy - I did text her later when I got back home saying that I had a great time and to have fun at her movie and vacation. She replied back instantly saying thanks and she had a great time as well, for me to have fun on my memorial weekend camping trip, and to take pics, smiley face, lots of exclamations at the end. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have replied back so quickly and happily, esp since she was with her friends waiting for a movie... right?
phineas Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 I refuse to start dating a woman before she goes on a long vacation. I tell them to just call me when they get back. They know their going to party & they know they will probably hook up so why get attached to someone & ruin the single fun she can have on vaca?
DanielMadr Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 She maybe barfed in her mouth a little. Don't drive so fast, man. You don't ask for confirmation of your status on 3rd date, dude. That's just needy. Either she has it for you and won't give it to someone else or she does not. Words and promises mean shyt anyway...Brad Pitt goes around and BAM.
123BeachFan Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 Daniel and Phineas have good points. It would seem a bit premature to go exclusive with a gal 3 dates into things, when she's about to be gone for a month.
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