bolase Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 Umm I did the wrong thing, but I read messages on my boyfriend's phone and found a couple of possibly dodgy texts. Should I bring this up (we've been together about 6 weeks) or leave it? Quick bg - we have been friends for a few years for good reasons we both got together recently. It's going really well, we're both independent and want the same in a partner, spontaneous and have fun together and respect each other. One thing I know about his previous relationships that worried me - he gets sexually bored..but I kinda think it's the girls he's been with, knowing a couple of them. I also know his recent ex is still wanting him back but he isn't interested. The other morning I took his phone in my bag by mistake (we have the exact same phone model). I realised later at work and decided, though I KNOW it was a little wrong, to flick through and just see if his ex had been texting him as I didn't know any details besides him telling me that she's still pining pretty hard. I only went through the first 15 or so and saw nothing from her, sweet! But then there were two from an unsaved number, at 10.15pm at night just 3 DAYS ago. I was busy that night and didnt know whether he had plans. One said 'when are you coming over.' the next one said 'see you soon meg' What do you make of that? I do trust him thus far, but it made me just slightly anxious. I should just let it go right? I've already asked him if we were seeing other people and he said no, of course not! It was probably just friends, and someone whos number he didnt have...right? I don't really want to admit checking his phone, as I totally satisfied my curiousity about the ex. Almost wish I hasn't. 'who's meg?' ...or just stay quiet?
TaraMaiden Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 Oh yes.... "When are you coming over?" and "See you soon" are bound to be completely innocent, and sure to be just a mate wanting to x-box with him. Well do you trust him completely, or don't you? It's only been 6 weeks. If you're already this uncertain, this early, maybe you should start looking around for someone else, before your heart gets shattered, rather than merely disturbed.
Author bolase Posted June 2, 2010 Author Posted June 2, 2010 yeah I pretty much do. I think I'm just getting anxious over-reading LS So do you think I should actually bring it up? Tara he is super busy and does a lot of project work (art) with a collective or two in the evenings so I assume it was part of that. not the x box type But also it was a chick whos number he didnt even recognise, she had to gve her name..thats what was confusing to me.
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