lovehurts Posted January 28, 2004 Posted January 28, 2004 Hi everyone, honest advice will be appreciated. My boy and I broke up about two months ago. Since then we seem to have gotten back together, seeing each other like we used to, everything seems the same. You could say we are working things out. I love him very much and know he loves me too and Im so grateful for this chance. (He broke it off with me) We talk everyday, he initiates it all. And he is putting in a bit of effort. But he is quite wishy-washy. Hot and Cold. Im not sure if I am thinking too much about it and making something out of nothing but I am unsure at what to do here. How should I deal with this? What should I be feeling about it?
Papillon Posted January 28, 2004 Posted January 28, 2004 Could you be more specific as to what he does exactly?
calithin83 Posted January 29, 2004 Posted January 29, 2004 well i know what u mean....u mean like soemtimes hes nice and sweet then all of a sudden hes distant and careless?? well in my opinion IGNORE HIM MORE OFTEN, maybe he sees ure always there, and ure so INTo him so he feels he can act this way, cos i bet u dont act this way so he doesnt worry. I even asked my bf what should a girl do if her bf asks this way and he said also to ignore him andgive him some challenge. all of a sudden he wikll be more hot then cold also read this book "why men love bitches" by sherry argov or agrov..somethinglikethat
Author lovehurts Posted January 30, 2004 Author Posted January 30, 2004 Thats exactly what it is like!! Thanks for your advice... Ive already started to act on it
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