Layla24 Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 My ex and I lived together and recently broke up with me (1 week ago). He said he doesnt love my anymore and was never himself around me. That is just didnt feel right. Two weeks ago he was telling me how much he loves me and we were planning trips together! He said enough is enough and he feels like the B**ch of the relationship. I have not done anything wrong. I really love him and should have shown him ALOT more but from previous relationships I had built a few walls to protect myself. I am completely heartbroken to come home and find all of his things gone. Is it really over or can I do something to get him back? He means the world to me and honestly treated me like a princess until last week? I cant get my head around it!
Ilovecake Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Moving out seems pretty final, even with the miniscule amount of info you gave I'll gander that he's done. He told you he doesn't love you (my ex by the way said the same words to me when he dumped me even though I was his dream come true three days earlier) so what you need to think about is whether you are willing to throw away a future chance of being in a real, healthy and happy relationship to be with some guy who doesn't love you and doesn't want to be around you? Are you sure that is what you really want?
carhill Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Since he didn't respect the relationship enough to disclose his intentions to move out and end the LTR, he deserves nothing of your time, attention or interest. He's dead. Grieve the loss and move on. If he has second thoughts, he can hear their whisper in the abject darkness of the solitude he unilaterally created for himself. My sympathies. IMO, that's not how a mature man ends things. More than likely there is someone else and he's been working on it for awhile. His comment about being the 'b!tch' of the relationship clued me in. You'll get through this. Best wishes
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