Cantcope Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 What is the one thing that you know now that you wish you had known right after your breakup? I'm trying to keep from having a total meltdown today, and I'm hoping that the good reading will keep me sane.
Author Cantcope Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 Alrighty then....how about this? Will you share how long you and your ex have been apart? When did the healing really begin?
sedgwick Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 What is the one thing that you know now that you wish you had known right after your breakup? I wish I'd known I'd feel more proud of myself if I had just walked away and never spoken to him again. I regret that I ever said one more word to him after he dumped me. As for the healing, it's been three years and I'm not healed yet.
GrayClouds Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 To understand that the amount of time it takes to heal is primarly in our own control. Once accepting that true healing began.
Phateless Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I think my true healing began about 6 months afterward, when I realized she wasn't the only girl in the world who would have me.
quankanne Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 i wish i'd have understood better that while I may have loved this person deeply, there was something much better suited for me in the plans; that he was not my be-all, end-all ...
Disintegration Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I wish I would have known about no contact THEN. Life would have been so different. Where was LS when I needed it.
USMCHokie Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I wish I would have known about no contact THEN. Life would have been so different. Where was LS when I needed it. +1 on the NC...and knowing that the woman I fell in love with died the moment she left...
Ilovecake Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 What is the one thing that you know now that you wish you had known right after your breakup? That I would be totally fine without hi, even better off than I was with him. Will you share how long you and your ex have been apart? When did the healing really begin? September will be two years since he said 'I don't love you, it's over'. The healing began when he finished that sentence. There have been so many different layers of healing though that it really isn’t a question I can answer, it's very open ended. I guess it’s the same thing as; When did you start dying? The day you were born. I don't think there is a definite beginning and end to healing from a loss.
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