Sadcakesleo Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 i broke up with my ex 5 months ago and about 4 months ag i met this girl at a club. she just got out of a relationship n i was looking for a rebound but she just wanted to be friends. she ended up meeting some guy and immediately became his gf. it barely lasted 2 months, during that time we barely talked. after she broke up with him we started talking again. it seems different this time. we have been out to eat a couple times n talk everyday.she even went to vegas and texted me from there just to say hi n we hung out as soon as she got back. we hung out last nite and she went home to an empty house. i told her to call if she was scared n she texted me shell b ok. i gave her a sad face n said i wish she was scared so i can go over there. she said i couldn't cuz she sleeps naked.gave her another sad face. she said if u miss me already just say so. i told her i did. she smiled n said gn...pretty much been texting throughout today wut were doing. i don't know what to think and i was rejected before by her n read it wrong but it feels different this time. but i could b wrong. should i say something or let it be. before i looked at her as a rebound from my ex but now i think i'm starting to really like her. thats y i need to know wuts going on.if she wants to b friends only then i can talk 2 her less and back away. plus i know shes not completely over her ex. help pls
BlkAzian Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Its always like that the ones you want dont want you back and i have been down that road.. I was upset but after I found out how the one I wanted back in the day was cheating on his wife.. I figured GOD had better plans for me... and You;)
dominoe Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 If you know she is not completely over her ex than it will never work out as far as being bf/gf goes. Wait for her to get over her ex before trying to push things to the next level. She will not/can not devote 100% to you if she still has feelings for her ex and that leaves you in a situation where you are giving 100% and she is not... either remain friends and see what happens down the road, or move on.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Clearly youre in first position with her as candidate for some type of romantic relationship. The 'i sleep naked' text is beyond flirting, that's telegraphing "You can have me, if you want me". This situation will depend on what u want really. If you like her, I say go for it.
Author Sadcakesleo Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 thnx for the advice the problem is I have been rejected by her a few months ago. She said she wanted to be friends and then proceeded to date another dude. now it seems different but i may be reading the situation wrong like I did the first time. She may just see me as a close friend like a brother or something. Which sucks because I do like her and she is taking my mind of my ex girlfriend
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