vanek26 Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Hey everyone. So last night I found myself in a really strange situation where all of the stars aligned for me. Some friends of mine wanted to rent a hotel room for the night just for something fun to do and so I wasn't crazy about the idea but had nothing else to do so threw in my share of the money and off we went. It turned out to be me and three other girls. One of the girls is someone who I had a romantic interest in a few months ago. At the time she seemed totally into me but then cut off communication for no reason because she said she really didnt want to be in a relationship. Well, right from the get-go she was flirting with me. Sitting close, grabbing my arm, teasing me, all of that. I could tell the whole night that she was being extra friendly. So as it turned out I ended up sharing a bed with her and the other two girls slept in the other bed. she asked me for a back rub and i obliged, and afterwards we got under the blanket and things got a little bit more intense. We were feeling each other up for hours. I'm not sure how graphic we're allowed to get on this site, but it was pretty intense. Only problem was that there were two girls sleeping close by so we couldn't make a lot of noise. We didn't have sex but I still pleasured her with my hands and she was REALLY into it; it surprised me. After we were all done, drenched in sweat, I rolled over and we went to sleep. She texted me making sure I knew that she did not want a relationship. I took her home this morning and we didn't talk all day. I'm fine with her not wanting a relationship, i'm not sure I would want one with her either. And yet I'm sitting here, and while I should have felt great about my conquest, I long for more. I didn't really get the chance to kiss her, and I'm itching for a round 2. I texted her teasing her about it and she kinda blew me off with short, choppy responses. She wasnt drunk last night, but i'm worried that it may have been a 'heat of the moment' thing that she might seriously regret. That suddenly makes the whole situation seem grim. I dont want a cheap hookup because I was in the right place at the right time, I want to earn it. So, what are your thoughts? Do you think if I'm patient enough I'll get another chance? On one hand she initiated most of what she did and I know I did a great job at making her horny and pleasuring her, but on the other hand she could be content leaving it as a one-night thing and never looking back. Something similar happened to me about a year ago. I had sex with a girl and it was kind of underwhelming and I found myself feeling sooo desperate to get another crack at her. A few days later she came calling and after a couple more get-togethers I was totally fine with never seeing her again. I think I may just need to get this new girl out of my system in a similar fashion. Any tips?
Author vanek26 Posted June 2, 2010 Author Posted June 2, 2010 Aww, you guys were really helpful in the past with me. Please someone respond
WTRanger Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Did she text you when you were laying right next to her? Patience never gets you anywhere. Take the initiative. However, she's blowing you off so ditch this one. The last thing you need to do is act like a love-sick puppy dog around her. It more than likely was she was in the need for a fix, and you happened to walk into it. The let-down could come from the fact that you were interested in her at some time and probably thought about sex with her. When it didn't pan out to your fantasy, it's a let-down. Think nothing of it. It was just a fantasy. Move on to someone new.
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