sBlayes Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I've broken things off with a non-committal guy. Since then, theres only been a few random texts that haven't led anywhere. The main reason I broke things off was because I couldn't deal with the hot and cold. I figured that the only way I would ever figure out how we feel about each other is to walk away...you know the whole saying "if you love something let it go...if it comes back its yours" blah blah blahhh! Well...this is not the first time I've tried putting my foot down. It's happened quite a few times and hes always wiggled his way back into my life. Every time that happened I'd think things like "ok this is it, maybe he's finally ready." NOOOOO nothing...its so strange to me. Anyway, I'm pretty sure I know that this isn't going to work as much as I wish it could. I think I've done a good job at going about my business, keeping my self occupied and what not. However, he is still the first thing I think about when I wake up, and the last thing I think about before going to sleep. I have put myself out there little by little, trying to meet people, but nothing special has come along. I'm simply hoping to hear that others have been through a similar situation and have come out ok and on top... :\
Heatemyheart89 Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 hey. Honestly in my experience all you can do is carry on going about your business. If he wants you he knows where you are. I think you should start realising that there is a guy out there who won't be like he. He will want to commit to you Good luck!
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