zxcvbnm Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 We've been together for a year and we already live together for 6 months. and during all these times things have been great except his ex gf would always calls him or emails him, and he never refuses. and we've been fighting for this a hundred times. I trust him 100%, i just dont understand why they just have the need to remain friends in spite of how much i hate it. But after all this, i still love him and thinking we will one day get married. but last night he finally told me the reason he didnt break off contacts with his ex is simply because he thinks we have a possibily of breaking up one day and he doesnt want to lose a friend(his ex) just for this "one-day-we-will-break-up-relationship". he said is because he's been too many relationships, he can not give unconditional love. i just feel so hurt and what i want is someone who will love me no matter what. please, anyone, what do you think? i really love him but i cant accept what he said. should i just break up?
Author zxcvbnm Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 (edited) thanks for the reply. it will really be a heart breaking thing, but i should just do it. really like your quote, and i need that "Power" Edited June 1, 2010 by zxcvbnm
ADF Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Whoa! When I began to read your post, my first thought was, "here is another pathologically insecure person demanding their SO drop friendships just to appease their neurosis." But boy was I wrong! This guy all but admits he has no faith in the future of your relationship, and wants to keep his ex around as a back up. What an jerk! Get away from this bonehead, fast!
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