HawaiianSuperman Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 So i've been dating this girl for a good 4 months and i've grown to really like her. I've asked her to be my girlfriend before and she told me that she really likes me too and that one day we could be boyfriend and girlfriend, but she was still getting over her last long term relationship at the time. She told me that if I could wait until summer to ask again then she'll give me a definite answer. We've gone on mini vacations, with just the two of us, and in three weeks we'll be heading to vegas. I was thinking I would tell her how I really felt about her and say something along the lines of "I've grown to like you a lot, and I can honestly say that I love you. I enjoy every moment we spend together and hopefully you feel the same. I can't imagine being with anyone else, nor can I think of anyone else that I would want to ask to go steady with me. And with that said, I would love for you to be my girlfriend." So that's my situation and how I was going to go about handling it. I just wanted to get other people's input and see what they had to say about it. Any advice or critiques would be appreciated. Thanks in advance. Regards, HawaiianSuperman
legallyblonde289 Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 if she hasn't agreed to be your gf yet, i deff wouldnt tell her you love her, it will likely scare her off. however, i think its ok to ask her to be your gf when you go to vegas
Green Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 Look you aren't exactly going from friend to girlfriend if you have been dating and having sex I'm assuming all this time.. You are going from its complicated to in a relationship if you will. Look I say you just lay down the law... You're my gf and I'm you're bf and I'm not going to date any other girls and I expect you not to see any other guys but me... If she is not cool with that then just start dating other girls and leave her.
Author HawaiianSuperman Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 if she hasn't agreed to be your gf yet, i deff wouldnt tell her you love her, it will likely scare her off. however, i think its ok to ask her to be your gf when you go to vegas hmm. that makes sense. thanks for that.
Author HawaiianSuperman Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 Look you aren't exactly going from friend to girlfriend if you have been dating and having sex I'm assuming all this time.. You are going from its complicated to in a relationship if you will. Look I say you just lay down the law... You're my gf and I'm you're bf and I'm not going to date any other girls and I expect you not to see any other guys but me... If she is not cool with that then just start dating other girls and leave her. there has been no sexual intercourse. but thanks for the advice none the less.
Green Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 there has been no sexual intercourse. but thanks for the advice none the less. Then I change my advice just have sex with her!
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