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My G/F and I got into a fight yesterday, it was a misunderstanding in my eyes and blown way out of proportion. It was bigger from her view. We did not speak all day and I called her in the evening to applogize etc. ( got her voicemail) and left a message.

 

She called me back a half hour later and gave me the "i was in the shower line" but that is besides the point. We somewhat patched up the misunderstanding but she said she is still mad at me. Before we hung up I invited her to one of my best friends bbq's this evening at his house and she declined and said she did not want to see me today.

 

I havent heard from her all day which is not like her at all. Should I call her or text her and see how her day is going? Or wait it out and let her contact me?

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It wouldn't hurt to call again. It sounds like she just needs to cool down and that will happen with time. The fact that she did call you back sort of sends the message that it is okay for you to call.

 

if she is still short with you on your next call or still says she is mad, you can ask her if you should just back off an let her cool off or what she wants you to do - or you can just wait for her to make the next move.

 

but it sounds like it is okay to call or text.

 

AND - my boyfriend ALWAYS calls me in the shower... like clockwork .. it isnt always a line!! :)

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Thanks so much Jane! I guess I will give it a shot and call her.

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