somedude81 Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 The problem with that you are saying is that women don't send average men signals. Exactly. Communication goes both ways. There's no point getting frustrated if you are speaking Chinese to somebody and they don't understand it. Men are actually very easy to communicate with. There is basically no subtext involved.
candymoon Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 The average men that can't are the ones who miss social cues. Precisely. My friends and I have this saying: Some men don't know you're giving them the green light unless you sit on his face. LOL, yes, my friends and I are a crude bunch, but it's true! Some handsome men always notice when when a woman is checking they out because they EXPECT it and enjoy the cat and mouse game. On the other side, I've known a few model gorgeous guys and I mean gorgeous enough to make a woman cry, that missed the social cues too. One in particular, i got sick of jabbing in the ribs when *I* noticed a woman checking him out. He'd go "No she's not!" and even when he did finally get it, he'd bail on chatting her up because he was entirely too shy. Doh... I think the not noticing the cues from women, say in a social setting from a stranger, is a lack of self esteem thing for the average to the drop-dead gorgeous.
Green Posted June 3, 2010 Posted June 3, 2010 If a woman thinks of you as average she will probably ingore you when it comes to DATING. You have to set yourself apart if you want to get noticed. Make yourself an individual and not JUST SOME GUY.
PJKino Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Yes but i blame it on Men since we hit on nearly anything we give the average girl more options and perhaps and inflated sense of self worth on the social food chain..
O'Malley Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 I was under the impression that everyone is average in some ways, not average in others, and that life always doesn't distribute the benefits fairly. A guy who repeatedly gives off an unhappy or angry vibe, with obvious undercurrents of dislike for women in general is going to get ignored, for all of the right reasons. His behavior is not 'average', it's disturbing. The same would apply if the genders were reversed.
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