Toki Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 How do I put this nicely... you're what they call the "Throw away" Girl. Easy on the eyes, potentially easy to bed, but as your post suggests, you don't have much else to offer. Get a personality, and things like this might not happen.
Art_Critic Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 I went back and read the backstory on him and honestly it sounds like he might have been not upfront with you about his relationship status from the get go. When he changed his status on facebook after you guys went out it sounds like he was already in a relationship and perhaps she had him change it.. While she may be overweight and you are acting out in anger you need to realize that there are creeps out there who just don't care.. He is the jerk not her.. Next........
brainygirl Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 I went back and read the backstory on him and honestly it sounds like he might have been not upfront with you about his relationship status from the get go. When he changed his status on facebook after you guys went out it sounds like he was already in a relationship and perhaps she had him change it.. While she may be overweight and you are acting out in anger you need to realize that there are creeps out there who just don't care.. He is the jerk not her.. Next........ either way, he is now in a relationship and not the dude for the OP.
Art_Critic Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 either way, he is now in a relationship and not the dude for the OP. Indeed It sounds to me like the OP was just ranting anyhow.. venting .. Dating isn't easy
jamal Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 Oh no. This sounds like my high school prom. I had been asking this one smoking hot chick to be my date and she kept on giving me attitude and kept me waiting for an answer. I eventually ended up asking a female friend (buddies) to come with me. This friend of mine wasnt as smoking as this miss thang. When she learned about the new arrangement she approached my friend and categorically stated that she is the one who is supposed to be my prom date. Too late princess. Thought she could dikk me around because she was so pretty.
marsle85 Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 How do I put this nicely... you're what they call the "Throw away" Girl. Easy on the eyes, potentially easy to bed, but as your post suggests, you don't have much else to offer. Get a personality, and things like this might not happen. I have a feeling your introduction "How do I put this nicely..." was just for dramatic effect... because you weren't nice at all, nor did you try to filter what you were saying. Unnecessarily cruel, to me.
jthorne Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 (edited) <---- *Gets his popcorn ready AND a large coke.*I got my Junior Mints ready too... Can we say shallow much? However, I think the OP may have left the building... Edited May 31, 2010 by jthorne
stillafool Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 Why does one assume just because the other girl was heavier that she wasn't as "hot" as OP. Maybe she is a better looking girl. As one poster said without pics, who knows? Afterall, she is the one he chose to be with.
txsilkysmoothe Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 Is this the guy who went back to his ex with whom he has a child? Is she the woman you're calling fat?
Author mortensorchid Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 Is this the guy who went back to his ex with whom he has a child? Is she the woman you're calling fat? No no, this guy in question has 2 children from a previous relationship. The new gf has no children, but she's a big gal despite that fact.
ADF Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Sorry, but why does your better body make you more worthy of love than this other, heavier woman? Maybe she's a nicer person, and this is that one in a million guy who isn't all about looks.
SilentVoice Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Why does it even matter who he left you for...either way he is still not with you. You would probably feel the same way if the women who you speak of may have been by your standards hotter than you.Might as well get over it.
MyNameIsJane Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 The guys I have dated - casually and seriously - have ranged on the 10 point scale in the looks department... some of the casuals have been much hotter than others, but haven't stuck like other relationships... just because someone looks good, doesn't mean the connection or chemistry is right. You've already heard this a dozen times, but it is most likely that he just had a better connection with his now gf. Doesn't make either of you better or worse than one another.
amymarieca Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I must say, this is yet another thread that adds to the large amount of emotional immaturity in this forum. When did the threads start becoming less insightful and more...well...stupid?
Pink Cupcakes Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I'm going to leave the superficial comments out of it regarding his "girlfriend" he left you for, but he clearly wasn't that into you if he just forgot about you because very early on in dating you went on a trip. It's not like you really "left" him. So really you dodged a bullet if he would so easily forget you and not want to date you because you went on a two-week trip. A guy that was really into you would totally be waiting for you back home for when you returned, and actually in this day and age of cell phones...well he would be calling you while you're on your trip! This dude wasn't that into you in the first place!
Star Gazer Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Somewhere on the internet, a fat woman has started a thread saying, "This woman he went out with only twice and then disappeared on him showed up at the party and walked straight over to him without even saying hello to the hostess. So I went over to my bf, and when he introduced us, she looked down her nose at me like I was a turd, so I had to walk away from the bitch before I smacked that nasty look off her face." I heart you, NJ. This thread is why you have trouble, MC. What a horrible attitude to have.
Star Gazer Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I do agree you're being pretty inconsiderate with your generalizations, but I think the real matter here is his desire to jump in a relationship. He wanted something now (like a lot of guys) and she was there and available. We don't really know this. For all we know, he could have been dating multiple people (including MC and her larger counterpart) and simply made his decision... and based on MC's previous thread about this guy it sounds like he WAS dating someone else (bigger girl) when he and MC went out...?
donnamaybe Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Somewhere on the internet, a fat woman has started a thread saying, "This woman he went out with only twice and then disappeared on him showed up at the party and walked straight over to him without even saying hello to the hostess. So I went over to my bf, and when he introduced us, she looked down her nose at me like I was a turd, so I had to walk away from the bitch before I smacked that nasty look off her face." LMFAOROTF!!!!!
Jersey Shortie Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Hiliarious Norajane. I said I'd been as well, then his new girlfriend walks in and he puts his arm around her and said "And then I met this!" She is HUGE, I am thin and if I do say so myself I have a pretty rockin body. I was about to introduce myself and shake her hand, but she walked off. He said "You went away" before I could say anything. This is refering to a two week long road trip where I went to New York and Chicago; I was about to say it's not like I moved away and I was never coming back. Then he walked away. WHAT A DOUCHEBAG!!!! Talk about dodging a bullet, huh? Yeah, he totally did dodge a bullet.
2sure Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Then he walked away. WHAT A DOUCHEBAG!!!! Talk about dodging a bullet, huh? Funny, I'm sure he was thinking the exact same thing.
DanielMadr Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I went to a BBQ tonight, invited by someone to the house of the guy I had mentioned from the previous thread. I was wary about going over, as he (the one who said that he was all of a sudden "in a relationship" on Facebook after two dates with me, and he was not in said relationship with me) also lived there. His female roommate, who is a very sweet gal, has befriended me, and she assured me that all would be find if I came over. So I agreed, and I decided I was going to have a chat with him and say that everything is cool with me and him, since we will have to see each other in the same circles there will be no animosity. I walk in the house and see him, I walk right over to him and said hello. I asked how he'd been, he said he'd been busy and things. I said I'd been as well, then his new girlfriend walks in and he puts his arm around her and said "And then I met this!" She is HUGE, I am thin and if I do say so myself I have a pretty rockin body. I was about to introduce myself and shake her hand, but she walked off. He said "You went away" before I could say anything. This is refering to a two week long road trip where I went to New York and Chicago; I was about to say it's not like I moved away and I was never coming back. Then he walked away. WHAT A DOUCHEBAG!!!! Talk about dodging a bullet, huh? So first you b1tchin' about him being too available...I can understand that. But then you b1tchin' about him finding someone else when you forget to share his enthusiasm...That I cannot understand....Or maybe I can. Girls seriously suck at being rejected...take it like a Man!...oh, right...you can't.
superchick Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I guess one's personality can go a long way. Smoking hot body and bad attitude not so much. Something to think about, you know.
XxBacktoBlackXx Posted June 2, 2010 Posted June 2, 2010 Regardless of what happened with this guy, why was it even necessary to bring up the weight of his girlfriend? No matter how hot you think you are, there is always going to be someone who thinks a different body type is hotter. That's life. There's no use bashing the other person for it.
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