justaquestion Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 I ask this girl to go on a date with me. she said that we could make it work but unfortunately had to work that night.I told her afterward we could find a later date. Did she blow me off or kind of interested.
Author justaquestion Posted May 31, 2010 Author Posted May 31, 2010 bump please just need some advice. I think she didn't blow me off but, I want a second opinion.
alaskafire08 Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 keep trying. If she says again that she's busy, ask her to choose the day & time. If she says, "the 12th of Never"....., better consider yourself blown.
Author justaquestion Posted May 31, 2010 Author Posted May 31, 2010 the thing is she said that it could work. Also, she home for summer so I could only be there that day. So I think that why she didn't give me date she free.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 the thing is she said that it could work. Also, she home for summer so I could only be there that day. So I think that why she didn't give me date she free. It's tough to say with 100% certainty, but it's very likely she blew you off. Instead of setting up a "date", why not just let her know where you'll be at/with and say it would be great to see you there. Inviting them to join in (versus the formality of scheduling a time and place for a "date") yields less flakage. Good luck.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 Also, some girls are just bad at saying no, so they'll say yes and flake out. I'm not saying this was the case, but understand that if you went too fast or asked her out before enough interest/attraction was created than that may explain "having to work". 2 rain checks in a row = not enough interest.
Author justaquestion Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 (edited) alright well after she said that we talk. I told her that I would be in near her town again. She was asking question where, when, why. So it sound like she was interested after that. but who knows. Does it matter at all if she told me where she worked when she said no? Like she wanted me to stop by. Edited June 1, 2010 by justaquestion
Author justaquestion Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 Also, some girls are just bad at saying no, so they'll say yes and flake out. I'm not saying this was the case, but understand that if you went too fast or asked her out before enough interest/attraction was created than that may explain "having to work". 2 rain checks in a row = not enough interest. it wasn't like it was a yes then text me back later it was in the same sentence
Cracker Jack Posted June 1, 2010 Posted June 1, 2010 I don't think she blew you off or anything. If the same scenario goes down next time, then yeah, it would be likely--but now, too early to say.
Author justaquestion Posted June 1, 2010 Author Posted June 1, 2010 like I said in my last thread, she has touched me before....arm and chest shirt. But we been friends for a while because she had a bf. Not anymore though.
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