Serenitynow Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 How does a guy go about staying out of the friend zone with a female ? All I ever hear from women is that guys want one thing. So, with that in mind, if I ever get a date again, and I want to show her that I'm not in it just for sex, how long in a womens mind, would you wait before starting to wonder if this guy is weird/has issues/not attracted to you. This a no win situation for most guys. If the guy tries to show respect and wait, the girls loses interest. If the guy comes across too forward, then hes a pig and only out for one thing. Have any ladies ever lost interest because the guy didnt make any moves or waited to long ?
USMCHokie Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 You stay out of the friend zone by not being her friend. Ask her out early on. Show that you do want sex. "Showing respect" does not mean that you don't express interest. It merely means that if she says "no, not yet" that you back off a little. But at the same time, you need to always be moving forward.
legallyblonde289 Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 How does a guy go about staying out of the friend zone with a female ? All I ever hear from women is that guys want one thing. So, with that in mind, if I ever get a date again, and I want to show her that I'm not in it just for sex, how long in a womens mind, would you wait before starting to wonder if this guy is weird/has issues/not attracted to you. This a no win situation for most guys. If the guy tries to show respect and wait, the girls loses interest. If the guy comes across too forward, then hes a pig and only out for one thing. Have any ladies ever lost interest because the guy didnt make any moves or waited to long ? kiss her but dont try to have sex with her right away. showing that you respect her and are physically attracted to her are not mutually exclusive. once i kiss a guy he's not in the friendzone, im either interested or im not.
brainygirl Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 For me its body language. A guy who's interested in a woman will be sitting near her, facing her, maybe touching a little, even if all they are doing is watching a movie. Walking he should hold her hand or touch her at the elbow or waist. This is different than groping her or jumping her as soon as she sits still. Interested body lanugage good. Jumping/groping bad. Timing is individual.
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