Eclipse11 Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 Hi everyone I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago, we haven't spoken for two weeks since he got angry on the phone because I wasn't ready to meet up with him, he took it in then that we had really broken up.... Now...I'm lost at how to proceed...write a message back I guess... Last night ( I'd already guessed it ) I got a text from my ex saying he was very drunk and still missed me like crazy...he was at his birthday party... So I texted back "happy birthday have a wonderful day"...he then texted "glad you haven't forgotten me completely"... I thought that was that...now, I have set up a Facebook page and received a friend request from him today ( we have mutual friends )...I'm too soft to refuse, I accepted, now he has sent a private message saying he hopes I'm well, the picture was nice, his mum had a fall...and it said "so you've finally set up your facebook page!" So I've got to text back I guess...I'll make it sound cool - I think maybe he's getting over me but my sister thinks I must be living in cloud cuckoo land to think so...I didn't even think he'd want to be a facebook friend... I just cannot reconcile, there is a chance but it's only extremely slim...I don't know what to do...will it be okay to "be a friend"? Previously I had cut off contact for his sake, so I wouldn't give him false hopes...Eclipse x
Ckyh Posted May 31, 2010 Posted May 31, 2010 Eclipse!!! you told me to be strong! what about you!!! Do you actually want to get back with him? he obviously wants you back. If you want to move on and not give him false hope, do what my ex did and cut him off totally! NC! and don't add him as a fb friend! *delete delete delete!* - this is giving him hope! your sister is right btw. but...if you do want to get back with him, just let him know. i have my fingers crossed for you!
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