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Flirting and touching on a first date


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I bumped into a childhood friend the other day and was glad to see she had turned into a beautiful woman. We agreed to grab some food and check out a movie.

 

I immediately felt that she was a touchy-feely type of person. I initially thought it was pleasant but then she would firmly grab my thigh on a few occasions, even rubbing it up and down, and that's when the red light came on.

 

I was always told that touching one's thigh is a sexual gesture, which means that I wouldn't attempt something like that until I'm sure we're getting intimate. Definitely not something I would try in the context we were in.

 

Am I being too conservative?

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I bumped into a childhood friend the other day and was glad to see she had turned into a beautiful woman. We agreed to grab some food and check out a movie.

 

I immediately felt that she was a touchy-feely type of person. I initially thought it was pleasant but then she would firmly grab my thigh on a few occasions, even rubbing it up and down, and that's when the red light came on.

 

I was always told that touching one's thigh is a sexual gesture, which means that I wouldn't attempt something like that until I'm sure we're getting intimate. Definitely not something I would try in the context we were in.

 

Am I being too conservative?

 

Well IMO yes you have issues if this bothered you.

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She might think you've turned into a man she really wants. Also the fact you were childhood friends, she might feel she connects with you still, definitely more than a stranger.

 

If you think she's beautiful, show a little interest through communication but keep her wanting more.

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