MountV Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 Its been 6 weeks now since my ex dumped me after a 2 year relationship. The initial emotions are beginning to subside but there is still a degree of pain and cannot seem to get her off my mind. There has been very little contact, I initiated NC from the start but we did meet up last week for "coffee". BIG MISTAKE.......I made a fool of myself, I was so nervous. She was practically oozing wit confidence, texting the whole time, telling me how much fun shed been having and nothing seemed to phase her....she had complete control of the situation. After our meeting I felt like absolute **** for a week, I hated myself for being so weak. Anyway I am still desperately in love wit this girl, but I seem to be slowly fading into a "suttle resentment phase". She cheated on me about a year into our relationship, I was upset at the time but got over it. Anyway, within four weeks of breaking up, she personally was posting photos of them two together on facebook. After stumbling across these photos on the face book home page It made not so much jealous but very angry. Am i overreacting, or is what she did really inconsiderate? Is she deliberately trying to toy with me or does she literally not give a **** anymore?
annabelle84 Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 ok... who invated who to meet up? if it was you, than big no-no... you shouldn't have done that before you were the one with the upper hand and in control of your feelings (even if you are still in love with her). if she invited you... i guess it goes both ways... you should have waited until you got yur emotions under control. As for th pictures, i can understand WELL your feelings.... my ex broke up wth me 3 weeks ago and a week after he had his hi5 with the status of happy, all my comments were erased and he had this picutres of him and this gorl i can't stand. So I understand the angryness... you probably felt like you were going to blow ... and felt like asking her for explanations (I did... but i guess the break up was way to recent back then). you want my humble opinion? it's impossible for them not to care after long relationships... even if it is minimal, they do care. but they just think we are not in their lives amymore, so they act like they don't to make things easier for them and so that they can make a stand. She knows it will be painful for you to see it, she probably wishes it wouldn't... but she must act confident and detached, she must act like she doesn't give a **** until she actually doesn't one day. they know what they are doing... but to some point they know the effects their actions have. i can also just be that she (and in my case my ex) was over the breakup before it happened, because she had time to think about it way befoer it happened and she is emotionally gone. Either way... I think she is aware of you... she is just trying to move on.
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