bananaboat11 Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 She seems more into me than I am into her. I don't care if she dumps me, but I do (otherwise I wouldn't post this here). I don't know what to make of the situation. Technically, she's pursued me... but I did engage the relationship. We're boyfriend / girlfriend now. Only for a week. We've been upfront about what we each want out of this relationship. I told her I'm scared being she's had a breakdown... whispered she doesn't trust me... likes me a lot... (I stayed and held her hand through her breakdown).. then her and me had dinner together after she spontaneously dyed her hair... she then proceeded to cuddle up with me in bed later. The next day... it was as if everything was back to normal... for her. She even had lunch with her recent ex (back up a second here... she's told me she wants to remain friends with him before explaining she's realized that she wants nothing more with him other than a friendship and that she has feelings for me... and wants to build something with me) So of course it startled me... but then she asked me if it was ok that she did that. That struck me in awe. What did you do? Sleep with him on your break? I already told her I'm confident enough she can still be friends with him even though it's been 3 days b/w dumping him (whom you dated for a year, but no relationship... only sex) and starting to date me. You let me know right off the bat where you were emotionally and mentally. I told you I didn't want to be your rebound... so we started off slow. 3 weeks later... still no sex b/c I don't want to be your rebound... you want me in your life, we're boyfriend/girlfriend now... you've told me you're going back on the pill b/c you want to sleep with me... i don't know if I should care? If I shouldn't care? If I should just detach myself already from this ... we're clearly in the honeymoon stage b/c we're fooling around and can't keep our hands off eachother. I'm 25... you're 24. We've both been burned. We both have baggage... yours more recent... i'm clearly over analyzing 'us'... but I think so are you. I think I know the right thing to do in this situation. /OPEN THOUGHT PROCESS FOR YOU ALL TO READ.
Author bananaboat11 Posted May 30, 2010 Author Posted May 30, 2010 Is this the coffee shop girl? Yup. She strikes me as a rather intelligent, educated girl. Very liberal... very hippy-ish. But so much fun, too.
USMCHokie Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 Eh, I think it's over. Stop whining. We need to talk.
Author bananaboat11 Posted May 30, 2010 Author Posted May 30, 2010 She sounds nuts. Been through this once... don't want to go through it again.
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