trueluV Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 meeting a new guy is exciting, but can be so frustrating!!! okay, here goes... this new guy showed quite some interest in me when we first met- we met through a mutual friend at her party. he asked my number, asked me to join him to another party afterwards, told me i'm attractive, tried to hold my hand, etc. last weekend he asked me out a few times, but i couldn't make it, and i asked him out too, but for some reasons we couldn't meet up. he hasn't initiated contact since last weekend, so i thought maybe i might've given out a wrong sign, so i texted him today. and it seems like he is backing off. i don't know for sure, but last week, he replied to my texts right away and they were all pretty long and asking me out also, but today's text are taking him some time to reply, and not as long as last time. do you think he's backing off?? why are guys like this? guys are so difficult!!!! so frustrated! should i move on, or what should i do?
jthorne Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 Sounds to me like it just wasn't meant to be at this time. Maybe he met someone else that was more available.
TouchedByViolet Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 why are guys like this? guys are so difficult!!!! so frustrated! should i move on, or what should i do? Dating can be extremely frustrating and full of set backs.
IronMaiden Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 What you should do is, "not care"... If you do that, and have a number of guys you are dating, the one who pulls off the hook, ...eh, whatever! That is the way to date in the early stages.
Author trueluV Posted May 30, 2010 Author Posted May 30, 2010 i just asked him if he wants to meet up sometime. i wanted to do something before letting this one go. he seemed sincere last time, but if it's not than i'll find out sooner than later. if he was a flake, then i can move on peacefully.
Author trueluV Posted May 31, 2010 Author Posted May 31, 2010 so i texted him last night asking him if he wants to meet up sometime, and one full day has past and i haven't heard from him! i don't understand this guy! before sending this text, we texted back and forth at least 20-30 times in a 5 hour period, and unlike my earlier assumption that he was backing off, i didn't think he was and just trying to be careful. he asked a lot about me too in the texts. anyway, i gave my last shot and wanted to believe for once there's a nice sincere guy out there, but this one's disappointing as well. guys are so difficult to figure out! really, what was he thinking??
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