Body hair on men?

[Eclypse]

My new (and first ever) girlfriend is coming to my house for the first time tomorrow. And there is a good chance that we might get a little "frisky." The question I place before you is what do females think of body hair on guys? My ethnicity is eastern european, and so is hers. However she is very pale and not the type to have any body hair whatsoever, and I think I prefer that, I wouldn't like my woman to have a moustache!

 

However I have quite a bit of body hair. For my age there is a lot, I always had a lot more than my friends. It's not excessive but there is quite a lot on my chest, abdomen, and arms and legs. Thankfully none on back. So my question to the ladies is if they like their men to be "manscaped" with no hair, or if a covering on the chest and abdomen can be sexy?

[sagetalk]

If she's thinking about your body hair then you're screwing up.

[Krytie TV]

Stop now! Don't create silly things to worry about. You are who you are. Be that person, the best you can. Leave all hair where it is.

[Green]

Dude I have a ton of back hair and I really don't care what women think. I have no problem getting women even on the beach. You are getting into a poor mind set if you start worying about things like this. I really don't even understand why you felt the need to point out that you don't like women who have a mustache.... YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN... HAIR ON THE CHEST IS GOOD... BIG BALLS ARE GOOD... women will not always like these things you can't live your life based on what women will suposedly like.

[Citizen Erased]

I'm not a big fan of overly hairy men. I really doubt though that it would stop me from dating someone I was interested in.

 

I think you're good OP.

[ADF]

I think the whole world has gone crazy when it comes to grooming. It has gotten to the point where everyone is supposed to be perpetually tanned, where women aren't supposed to have pubic, where men aren't supposed to have chest hair, blah, blah, blah. What a load of rubbish! You are a PERSON, not a car. You come as you are, not with options. Insist your GF accept you as you are, and do her the same courtesy. Why the heck shouldn't an adult human body look like an adult human body?

[USMCHokie]

I think the whole world has gone crazy when it comes to grooming. It has gotten to the point where everyone is supposed to be perpetually tanned, where women aren't supposed to have pubic, where men aren't supposed to have chest hair, blah, blah, blah. What a load of rubbish! You are a PERSON, not a car. You come as you are, not with options. Insist your GF accept you as you are, and do her the same courtesy. Why the heck shouldn't an adult human body look like an adult human body?

 

 

I tend to disagree...because you can choose and change who you are...

[ADF]

I tend to disagree...because you can choose and change who you are...

 

Yes, you can change certain things about yourself, and it is sometimes good to do so. My point was that you should not reduce yourself to an object, to make changes you don't really want to make to appease some nitwit aesthetic of beauty that has no relation to reality.

[Viking]

Don't worry about it too much. Sure, we men see that we're supposed to be extremely muscular, tan and have biceps the size of watermelons. Women fortunately aren't as judgmental as we think they are.

 

Take for instance, my GF doesn't mind my body hair. I have it on my back, chest, arms, stomach and grow a thick beard after a while. I'm a hairy guy and it doesn't bother her really. I used to be super self conscious about it, but it is all about the mindset of feeling comfortable in your skin. I used to pull it out and for a long time I was going to get it electronically removed. Everyone has self perceived personal flaws that to someone else are just character. Girls have stretch marks, guys have body hair, the list goes on. Personally, I love my girlfriend's body. She doesn't have the shape of a runway model, but I like her shape nonetheless because it is hers. Because she has a good body image, it makes me feel like I have a good body image.

[Green]

I love the fact that I am hairy and would not have it any other way. You want to know the real trick to doing well with women... its not worrying yourself over stuff like this. Seriously if you are a swimmer or you personaly just don't want hair then get rid of it... but to change yourself for women is pointless.

[Maxxx]

You will be fine I am very hairy and I seem to find new places where hair has grown daily LOL I am reminded of the first time my GF got a good look at my "Backside" as I was getting out of bed. She was laughing a little bit I said what? She said you know the only spot on your body that's not covered by hair is your bald head LOL...... She makes fun of how hary I am but says she likes it

[Green]

You will be fine I am very hairy and I seem to find new places where hair has grown daily LOL I am reminded of the first time my GF got a good look at my "Backside" as I was getting out of bed. She was laughing a little bit I said what? She said you know the only spot on your body that's not covered by hair is your bald head LOL...... She makes fun of how hary I am but says she likes it

 

I remember when my gf first caught a glimpse of my hairy anus haha

[Engadget]

Dude I have a ton of back hair and I really don't care what women think. I have no problem getting women even on the beach. You are getting into a poor mind set if you start worying about things like this. I really don't even understand why you felt the need to point out that you don't like women who have a mustache.... YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN... HAIR ON THE CHEST IS GOOD... BIG BALLS ARE GOOD... women will not always like these things you can't live your life based on what women will suposedly like.

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao:

[USMCHokie]

I remember when my gf first caught a glimpse of my hairy anus haha

 

 

Hahah, thank you for this...