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Yeah id say that is way above average! lol.

 

But then again has anyone seen an ugly cheerleader???

 

There's usually a select few on every college cheer team.

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Here is a good example. Tina Feye to me is much more attractive than Meagan Fox even though most guys would probably think the opposite.

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Here is a good example. Tina Feye to me is much more attractive than Meagan Fox even though most guys would probably think the opposite.

 

Tina Fey is not at all average, though. She may not be as attractive as most hollywood actresses, but nobody could claim she's average.

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I don't think average girls get ignored, not at all. While I think I'm attractive and like the way I look, I'm no super model, just an average girl. I get approached and hit on almost every time I'm out alone.

 

I've never seen what you look like, but according to what other members have said you're extremely attractive...so I don't think you'd qualify as average.

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Within the "average" category -- which I believe I fall into -- there are tons of different types. When I go out, guys *never* hit on me. They're always talking to my friends. It actually used to give me quite a complex and make me feel very blah.

 

However, the men I have actually dated have been very above-average in terms of looks, and this is based on empirical evidence, as in everyone saying: "Pandagirl, you always date hot guys."

 

What does this tell me? Well, it tells me I have a good personality. :laugh: And that what is average to one person, is gorgeous to another.

 

BTW, I think it's hilarious in recent threads about what guys think "average," and "skinny" is. It seems as though many have been brainwashed by the media to think women should looks like celebrities or models.

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I consider myself average, I get hit on plenty. Usually after they're done getting rejected by the above average chicks. :p

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Within the "average" category -- which I believe I fall into -- there are tons of different types. When I go out, guys *never* hit on me. They're always talking to my friends. It actually used to give me quite a complex and make me feel very blah.

 

However, the men I have actually dated have been very above-average in terms of looks, and this is based on empirical evidence, as in everyone saying: "Pandagirl, you always date hot guys."

 

What does this tell me? Well, it tells me I have a good personality. :laugh: And that what is average to one person, is gorgeous to another.

 

BTW, I think it's hilarious in recent threads about what guys think "average," and "skinny" is. It seems as though many have been brainwashed by the media to think women should looks like celebrities or models.

 

Good point, but I think men and women have been brainwashed by the media, resulting in certain, unreal expectations of each other.

 

Surely we can't say women got off unscathed from the media.

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I can't agree with you, Mr. Nate.

 

I have seen plenty of 'Average' and 'Plain Jane' women get approached by men !

 

Yes, I don't understand how men function in that regard, but rarely do men approach the above average, or intelligent types in my opinion.

 

I don't even know which category I fall into: average, very attractive, pretty, model, are some of the mentions I get from men and women. But like Shadowplay, I rarely get approached by men. I get stares! :lmao:

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I can't agree with you, Mr. Nate.

 

I have seen plenty of 'Average' and 'Plain Jane' women get approached by men !

 

Yes, I don't understand how men function in that regard, but rarely do men approach the above average, or intelligent types in my opinion.

 

I don't even know which category I fall into: average, very attractive, pretty, model, are some of the mentions I get from men and women. But like Shadowplay, I rarely get approached by men. I get stares! :lmao:

 

ha. Well, the point of my thread was that I really think more men go for average women, than women who are obviously hot. I'm guessing you disagree with that?

 

But as far as rarely getting approached by men, I still think that's because men in general are afraid to approach women. Again, partially because of ego reasons, as well as other factors.

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No average girl for me. I only go for the hotest of the hot. I believe I filled that criteria.;):love:

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I think it depends on where you are. In a bar my slimmer friend will always be approached before I am. But if I'm with a larger friend, I get approached. Its also personality. I am quiet and standoffish, the guys go for the shot taking girls that are always laughing and seem to know everyone there.

 

I figure I am average in appearance in that I am not the ugliest girl around but not the prettiest either. I don't get hit on a lot, but it seems like I don't have as much of an issue with asshat guys bugging me as other women do, so maybe its a good thing not to be the hottest girl.

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'If guys would just stop chasing after the hot girl all the time, and look at the average girl...'

 

I've given this state some thought, and I really think it isn't true. I honestly don't think average girls are really passed up that much over hot ones. I say this for two reasons:

 

1. Average girls turn me on. One in particular I found myself being attracted to, because she understood me pretty well, and could read me like a book (which was interesting) They just seem more real to me, as in 'this is me..the real me'. They seem more down to earth and laid back.

 

2. A lot of times, I rather not wait in some long line to get a chance at some hot girl with a phone maxed out with contacts, and I doubt a lot of other guys would either.

 

Average women don't really get the short end of the stick, actually I think they're the most sought after. And they're definitely some of the most beautiful.

 

Anyone else agree?

 

So here's to you, average women, for keeping it real and down to earth.

 

A lot of times, I've had hot girls roll up on me due to the fact that I have ignored them because all the other guys were stumbling over themselves and or lining up to holler at them.

 

The fact that I just went on with my business must've been refreshing to them.

 

A lot of "hot women are swarmed with guys but a lot of times they get tired of it and if a guy shows some sign of having more to think about then, "hot girl", all of a sudden he's Brad Pitt or Denzel. :cool:

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No average girl for me. I only go for the hotest of the hot. I believe I filled that criteria.;):love:

 

You see this is the right attitude, plus his gf reads his posts

 

On what planet is the girl on the toilet average? She is blazing hot :cool:.

 

She seemed average to me, I didn't want to find some ugly girl and call her average... but you know what ugly girls sadly probably are average

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She seemed average to me, I didn't want to find some ugly girl and call her average... but you know what ugly girls sadly probably are average

 

It's not because they can't be attractive, they just give up on their looks many times. If they only understood just how visual we men are, they would be going nuts at the gym. The few girls that actually do get it rack up big time.

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On what planet is the girl on the toilet average? She is blazing hot :cool:.

 

Yeah, Green is on drugs.

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You see this is the right attitude, plus his gf reads his posts

He was disagreeing when I said I was average. He's biased. :p

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I'm sorry, but I think you're wrong. Way wrong. Not only are average women often ignored, but many men don't even bother to treat them with common courtesy. Many men see women who are not especially attractive as having no value whatsoever. How often do men go out of their way to befriend women they don't find attractive? Almost never.

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I'm sorry, but I think you're wrong. Way wrong. Not only are average women often ignored, but many men don't even bother to treat them with common courtesy. Many men see women who are not especially attractive as having no value whatsoever. How often do men go out of their way to befriend women they don't find attractive? Almost never.

 

Hm, realistically, I'll have to agree with some parts of this, but I also want to see where you're getting at. Basically, average women are not attractive? and it's only the hot ones guys chase after? If this is the case, then essentially, we are saying that if a woman is not attractive, she is ugly. So basically there are two types of women, attractive or ugly. Is that where you're getting at?

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Hm, realistically, I'll have to agree with some parts of this, but I also want to see where you're getting at. Basically, average women are not attractive? and it's only the hot ones guys chase after? If this is the case, then essentially, we are saying that if a woman is not attractive, she is ugly. So basically there are two types of women, attractive or ugly. Is that where you're getting at?

 

The ugly women chase after men... and then men who can't do better enjoy and accept them. I've had an ugly woman hit on me, and though I'm flattered I will always deny them.

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The ugly women chase after men... and then men who can't do better enjoy and accept them. I've had an ugly woman hit on me, and though I'm flattered I will always deny them.

 

LOL. what's an ugly woman? because many people have different definitions.

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LOL. what's an ugly woman? because many people have different definitions.

 

I would say this girl is unattractive IMO http://farm1.static.flickr.com/114/368768608_0744aaadaa.jpg?v=1169795438 and this girl is even less attractive http://media1.break.com/dnet/media/2007/10/385472_7128b3fb-43f8-4eca-a64f-cd0118695ac7_prod.jpg and then you have the out of shape girls http://rdsj.com/Share/FunnyPics/2003_11/Wonder_Woman.jpg

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Yeah those three are busted i wouldnt smash. But if no one found out maybe id smash the first two! lol.

 

See when your smashing your not dating. it's just sex, who's gonna care?

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Yeah those three are busted i wouldnt smash. But if no one found out maybe id smash the first two! lol.

 

See when your smashing your not dating. it's just sex, who's gonna care?

 

Personaly I'd date any woman I found attractive... like if I fell in love with some big fat woman so be it... I would be like "shes not fat, she's thick and curvy and I will kill you if you call her fat"... very unlikely though as I have great taste in women.

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