Jump to content

Are average women really ignored by guys THAT much?

MrNate

By MrNate
in Dating

 Share
While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

MrNate Established Member

MrNate

Posted
Posted

'If guys would just stop chasing after the hot girl all the time, and look at the average girl...'

 

I've given this state some thought, and I really think it isn't true. I honestly don't think average girls are really passed up that much over hot ones. I say this for two reasons:

 

1. Average girls turn me on. One in particular I found myself being attracted to, because she understood me pretty well, and could read me like a book (which was interesting) They just seem more real to me, as in 'this is me..the real me'. They seem more down to earth and laid back.

 

2. A lot of times, I rather not wait in some long line to get a chance at some hot girl with a phone maxed out with contacts, and I doubt a lot of other guys would either.

 

Average women don't really get the short end of the stick, actually I think they're the most sought after. And they're definitely some of the most beautiful.

 

Anyone else agree?

 

So here's to you, average women, for keeping it real and down to earth.

Lakeside_runner Established Member

Lakeside_runner

Posted
Posted

I agree. Average girls with interests are the best. If she's into doing sports like tri-s or running even better. I can't stand the 'hot', all cover in make-up hotties with as you said phones maxed out with contacts. They can be very shallow and as much as it's fun for a fling I doubt there would be a deeper connection.

shadowplay Established Member

shadowplay

Posted
Posted

I think a lot do. I would describe myself as above average or average depending on how I look on a particular day, and I get hardly any attention from men. I'm 26, slim, and have a nice body and an OK face. I dress pretty well, and I never wear dowdy clothes. I haven't been asked on a date in three years. I'm shy, so that's part of it, but yeah. I think the average girls who get asked out a lot are probably the very outgoing, friendly ones. Most average girls don't get approached very often. I wish that weren't the case.

bobdole Established Member

bobdole

Posted
Posted

My personal experience after dating a wide spectrum of types of women - "average" girls are the best, but also the hardest to find sadly :(

MyNameIsJane Established Member

MyNameIsJane

Posted
Posted

I think that "average" is kind of relative -What is meant by average? I think as far as a relationship... guys don't overlook and "average" girl... but really I think people are mostly looking for whoever they mesh with and have a connection with... that could be a hot girl or an average girl..

 

But guys are visual creatures - so when it comes to picking a girl up, of course men are drawn to the hot girl. Doesn't mean they are going home together :)

 

I think girls are the same way though - they just wont admit it. It isn't like I see a hot guy walk in a room and I think to myself "eh, I am really just looking for an average guy tonight."

MyNameIsJane Established Member

MyNameIsJane

Posted
Posted
My personal experience after dating a wide spectrum of types of women - "average" girls are the best, but also the hardest to find sadly :(

 

lol. How are average girls the hardest to find? They are average!

  • Author
MrNate Established Member

MrNate

Posted
  • Author
Posted
I think that "average" is kind of relative -What is meant by average? I think as far as a relationship... guys don't overlook and "average" girl... but really I think people are mostly looking for whoever they mesh with and have a connection with... that could be a hot girl or an average girl..

 

But guys are visual creatures - so when it comes to picking a girl up, of course men are drawn to the hot girl. Doesn't mean they are going home together :)

 

I think girls are the same way though - they just wont admit it. It isn't like I see a hot guy walk in a room and I think to myself "eh, I am really just looking for an average guy tonight."

 

Another good point I forgot to bring up. Defining 'average' is quite difficult when you think about it. Especially when you consider the fact that most people are probably considered 'hot' to someone. hmm.

somedude81 Established Member

somedude81

Posted
Posted
I think a lot do. I would describe myself as above average or average depending on how I look on a particular day, and I get hardly any attention from men. I'm 26, slim, and have a nice body and an OK face. I dress pretty well, and I never wear dowdy clothes. I haven't been asked on a date in three years. I'm shy, so that's part of it, but yeah. I think the average girls who get asked out a lot are probably the very outgoing, friendly ones. Most average girls don't get approached very often. I wish that weren't the case.

Wow, you haven't been asked out since you were 23? Where do you go so men can find you?

 

Also being she is a really bad thing. Shyness often comes across as disinterest.

 

If I talk to a girl that I think is cute but she does very little to keep the conversation going, I just guess that she is not interested and I move on.

 

There's also the annoyance that men guys won't know if a girl is single or not unless he actually asks her. But first the guy has to have decent rapport with the girl to even ask that question.

 

I'm totally fine going after average girls. But I'm sure I may have passed over many of them because I didn't know if they were single or if I had a shot with them.

TheBigQuestion Established Member

TheBigQuestion

Posted
Posted

In my experience, average girls are slightly better in the sack than their ultra-hot/high maintenance counterparts just in terms of enthusiasm and the sheer mechanics of the deed. :D

shadowplay Established Member

shadowplay

Posted
Posted
Wow, you haven't been asked out since you were 23? Where do you go so men can find you?

 

Also being she is a really bad thing. Shyness often comes across as disinterest.

 

If I talk to a girl that I think is cute but she does very little to keep the conversation going, I just guess that she is not interested and I move on.

 

There's also the annoyance that men guys won't know if a girl is single or not unless he actually asks her. But first the guy has to have decent rapport with the girl to even ask that question.

 

I'm totally fine going after average girls. But I'm sure I may have passed over many of them because I didn't know if they were single or if I had a shot with them.

 

Yeah, I know. I guess I don't make a real effort to find guys. I keep to myself a lot, so that's part of it. But I rarely get flirted with either. I don't have much of a social life (due to my shyness), so it's hard for me to make connections. I wish more guys would approach me and strike up conversations. I know that's hard to do, though.

  • Author
MrNate Established Member

MrNate

Posted
  • Author
Posted
I think a lot do. I would describe myself as above average or average depending on how I look on a particular day, and I get hardly any attention from men. I'm 26, slim, and have a nice body and an OK face. I dress pretty well, and I never wear dowdy clothes. I haven't been asked on a date in three years. I'm shy, so that's part of it, but yeah. I think the average girls who get asked out a lot are probably the very outgoing, friendly ones. Most average girls don't get approached very often. I wish that weren't the case.

 

I present this counter point. You sound above average to me, but you're shy. Maybe this is causing you to put off body language such as " i'm taken" or "don't talk to me"?

 

Ah, and as far as average girls not getting approached often, I think the saying goes for most girls. Guys just don't really approach girls in general, because of anxiety, fear of rejection, etc. A man's ego is very delicate, and they men will take very intense measures to protect it, even if it means not approaching a girl they're interested in. This can become a downfall in the fact that why you may protect your ego, you will often find yourself lonesome.

 

Just my $0.02 anyway.

Woggle Established Member

Woggle

Posted
Posted

I personally find averahe women more attractive. Maybe I am not like most men but I can see a woman that has model looks but if she has an ugly personality she is ugly to me. What good is looks if you have to put up with her crap?

 

The problem is that the saying all the good ones are taken applies in this case. Great women who make great partners are usually not single and get scooped up pretty quick. It is very rare to meet that is unattached.

Zed Established Member

Zed

Posted
Posted

I do think Average women have to work harder for the attention of guys who live in areas that have a high sex ratio and an above average cluster of really great looking people.

 

The area I’m in is inundated with wanna be models, models, dancers, fledgling actresses, heiresses, foreign nationals, high class strippers, and call girls. In other words, outstanding beauty, gorgeousness, and physically attractive girls that can rival anything in Hollywood are the standard here.

 

Physically average girls, therefore, are not going to be noticed, they have to be very outgoing, preternaturally brilliant funny or all of the above to get the attention of men here no matter if the guy is a toll booth operator, cop, trust fund baby, or an entrepreneur,. Most guys are trying to get the very beautiful women here so of course average women are going to be overlooked. You do have to make your own luck but the effort is really not worth the gain, so for those of us who are quieter, unassuming and not startlingly gorgeous, must guys will rarely give you a second glance, unless they know you are friends with someone really beautiful.

 

This is not a strike against physically gifted women or thinly veiled jealousy—its just reality at least in this area.

Chrome Barracuda Established Member

Chrome Barracuda

Posted
Posted

WTf is an average woman?!?

 

LOL.

JohnP82 Established Member

JohnP82

Posted
Posted

No, no more so than average guys.

Chrome Barracuda Established Member

Chrome Barracuda

Posted
Posted

Believe it or not the chick on the toilet is pretty damn hot!

 

I'd smash it!

 

the bikini girls, really???

 

Id dont know i like a juicy steak, than a skinny chicken wing lol.

TheBigQuestion Established Member

TheBigQuestion

Posted
Posted

Agreed. The toilet girl is hot... funny picture as well.

Chrome Barracuda Established Member

Chrome Barracuda

Posted
Posted

I know because i was like THAT's an average chick. homie that's above average if you ask me. You got another picture of her?

 

lol. but people got different tastes. I mean if you like anorexic blonde eurotrash models. then hey, go do your thing playa.

 

But i like a real woman anyday.

CLC2008 Established Member

CLC2008

Posted
Posted

Nothing says average like a girl sitting on a toilet. :cool:

Woggle Established Member

Woggle

Posted
Posted
Nothing says average like a girl sitting on a toilet. :cool:

 

Even beauty queens have to crap. Nobody is exempt from it.

somedude81 Established Member

somedude81

Posted
Posted
WTf is an average woman?!?

 

LOL.

Numbers 6 and 7 on this scale are average. Maybe #5 but depending on her body. BTW I don't agree with their choice of a 10.

allina Established Member

allina

Posted
Posted

I don't think average girls get ignored, not at all. While I think I'm attractive and like the way I look, I'm no super model, just an average girl. I get approached and hit on almost every time I'm out alone.

  • Author
MrNate Established Member

MrNate

Posted
  • Author
Posted
Even beauty queens have to crap. Nobody is exempt from it.

 

All I can say is: L.O.L

 Share
Go to topic listing
×
×
  • Create New...