amythan Posted May 28, 2010 Posted May 28, 2010 (edited) Hi ! Just long story short, we live in different places so we do not have that many opportunities to see each other but we talk on IM every day. But the thing is we just talk when we are at work, NEVER outside (during evenings or week ends). I like him very much. And i like the way i like him, I find him interesting and funny and we have many things in common. I guess that the fact he contacts me means that he likes me, but i cannot be sure. Some people like the chase, some flirt just because they are bored ... and this scares me to death as we work for the same company. He tells me very cute things and he shows interest in seeing me ("i am sorry i have to wait more to see you", "feel well and come to me silly", "i could def use some quality time right now" ....) which is a good sign but .. I am too scared to fool myself. Perhaps he sees me as just a friend and i am just looking too much into this. So my first question is how can i be sure if he likes me ??? He went on holiday one week ago and i called him to wish him a good time and he told me "this is cute, you should do it more often" Now i am going to get surgery for a minor thing and i am missing him but i do not know if should contact him as this is kind of breaking the implicit rule of don't talk outside the office (i am on sick leave). Should i wait him to contact me ? I am going to see him in two weeks so maybe it is no rush and i should just wait until then .. Thanks for your thoughts !! I do not think i have an specific question, i do not know what to think about all this and how to proceed. I do not want to misunderstand everything and i feel stressed about if he loses interest during these weeks we are not talking ... Thanks again !! Edited May 28, 2010 by amythan
marsle85 Posted May 28, 2010 Posted May 28, 2010 Ok. Let me get this straight, he goes on a mini holiday and you wish him well... and you go to have surgery (regardless how minor) and you want to call him? Noooooooooo way. Trust your gut. You're having doubts (in my opinion) for a valid reason.
Author amythan Posted May 28, 2010 Author Posted May 28, 2010 Hahaha now you put it this way ... yeah i am not contacting him ! If he is interested for real he must contact me. Thanks for your honest response. I am having doubts because even if he is sweet and he is contacting me something tells me he is enjoying the chase and the excitation but he is having doubts. Maybe the work situation, maybe the distance .. not important though. This is lasting for two months. We went out last time he was here, his idea. He asked me out every day and we had a blast but now, back to normal life perhaps i am not his priority.
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