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Why would a guy get with a girl if he just wanted to be friends with her? And we were together for 6 months why not just be honest from the get go instead of hurting me cause I really loved him

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Why would a guy get with a girl if he just wanted to be friends with her? And we were together for 6 months why not just be honest from the get go instead of hurting me cause I really loved him

 

There could be many possibilities; perhaps he didn't know how he was going to feel and wanted to let you down gently? Perhaps, he didn't know if he wanted a relationship until he realised you had feelings for him? Perhaps, he likes the attention, but doesn't want the commitment? Perhaps, he does like you, but is being guarded for some reason? Perhaps, you would be better off asking him this question so that he can give you his honest answer.

 

I am sorry you are hurting and I hope you are able to resolve how you feel and hear his truths.

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