supdawg1985 Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 There's this girl I like, she lives a ways from me however, and I don't get to see her. I want to make a move for her, but I'm not sure if she is available. The only way of reaching her is online thru social networks like Facebook. Last I knew she had a boyfriend but she recently hid her relationship status and I don't know if she's single or looking. I know it's a fragile thing trying to pursue a girl, and I don't want to ruin my chances. How can I know if she is single and interested? Also, if someone is in a relationship, is it even worth hinting that you like them?
samspade Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 Ask her out. You'll get your answer. It's not a fragile thing at all, and you won't blow your chance if it's not there. Just be a man, grab your balls, make your intentions known (you like her and want to meet her in person) and own your desires. If she isn't interested, or has a BF, she will decline, hopefully politely, and you can move on to the next bird.
MyNameIsJane Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 I would just go for it... ask her to do something casual and see what happens... If you are nervous and don't want to ruin thing/make it awkward if she IS taken... ask her to do something in a group. If she has a man, she might ask if she can bring him and BAM... answer. Thats a more round about way... but those are both options.
Clep Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 I would just message her and let her know that if she is single you would be interested in the prospect of going on a date. You would quickly receive and answer to both questions.
somedude81 Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 My suggestion, is to go up to her and just ask her if she's single, but do it in a fun upbeat way with good energy. Here's some ways it could happen You: Hey Suzie, are you single? Her: No, I have a boyfriend, married, lesbian lover etc You: Ok You: Hey Suzie, are you single? Her: Why? You: Cause if you are I want to get to know you better, take you to such and such place etc. You: Hey Suzie, are you single? Her: Yup You: Cool lets do something. Just because she's single doesn't mean she won't reject you though. If she goes give a rejection it will usually be very polite and may even offer friendship. Do not take that offer! Keep looking till you find somebody.
rewe4reel Posted May 28, 2010 Posted May 28, 2010 My suggestion, is to go up to her and just ask her if she's single, but do it in a fun upbeat way with good energy. Here's some ways it could happen You: Hey Suzie, are you single? Her: No, I have a boyfriend, married, lesbian lover etc You: Ok You: Hey Suzie, are you single? Her: Why? You: Cause if you are I want to get to know you better, take you to such and such place etc. You: Hey Suzie, are you single? Her: Yup You: Cool lets do something. Just because she's single doesn't mean she won't reject you though. If she goes give a rejection it will usually be very polite and may even offer friendship. Do not take that offer! Keep looking till you find somebody. You: Hey suzie are you single? Her: Yes, why? You: Cause I want to bang you harder than a screen door in a hurricane.
Author supdawg1985 Posted May 28, 2010 Author Posted May 28, 2010 So I contacted her and she didn't respond. Guess it was worth a shot.
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