Davr Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 (edited) Okay, so here is a list of girls (in my life) in no particular order that I would say I'm interested in, and I just wanted to know your thoughts on who you think would be best to ask out. 1. Lets call her N- This is a girl I used to work with. This was a good 5 or so years ago and she was much younger then (So, I didnt even bother) but then I could sense somewhat of a attraction both ways (more from her) it wasnt the age diff back then so much as she was only 17, and I was 23, so like I said.. wasnt happening and plus I did have a GF then. Anyway, she was madly hot and gorgeous either way and now of course she is like 22.... I havn't seen her in a while but we have contact via email.. last time we talked she was actually really wanting to see me (sounding like) just saying how I better go in and see her soon... etc.. Long story short, was on shift work and just didnt have much time.. this was about 1 year ago..... anyway, now im free and single etc.... hoping maybe she is single and I go in and see her and maybe click.. 2. B- This is actually a girl that caught my eye a couple weeks ago.. she is a cashier at a local store. We kinda had a brief moment ( a laugh) as I was just off work and had a crumpled bill I gave her, and I apoligized and she smiled.. etc.. so, Just noticed her one more time the other day and I think shes really pretty and was wondering about asking her out.. and at work and all, just seems hard.. 3. A- This is a girl pretty much the same as B... She works at another local store I have been to as of late more often... She has just served me a couple times and she is pretty cute. 4. D- This is a girl I regret not getting her #. This would be a long story but lets just say she was actually in contact with my mom (she told my mom she thought I was cute, etc) she was actually a nurse at a hospital where we were visiting a relative. I wasnt really in any place then to ask her out.... even though I was encouraged too) Anyway, even if I was going to now,maybe a problem becuase I dont know her name...anyway, I was gonna ask if you think there is also a non stalker way to contact someone of this nature..lol. 5. M- K, this is the most complicated and I realize there is a huge problem here, and that is she has a BF, but I will humor you anyway... She is the one that got away. Back when I was with a Ex, she was a girl that I worked with. We became friends immediatly and she eventually was giving me rides home (had a transportation problem for a while) just offered and took me places, hung out, etc. Turns out(as I know now) we were both in relationships(long ones) before we met and even when we did. So, I began to really start to like her just as my relationship (and hers now I know) ended.... she was gone. She left my work and started seeing someone.... now get this.... So, the guy she starts seeing, she told me back then reminded her of me. Anyway, So I let her pass by and stick with my Ex, only for my relationship to fall apart, and as soon as I realize the mistake and that I want to ask her out... its too late and she already started seeing this guy that " reminds her of me" oh btw, I did ask her out back then and she said yes.. I just didnt really end up pulling through because the my GF- her (i thought) BF at the time. Anyway, so yeah, shes still with the guy all these years later and here I am thinking that should be me.... get me? - of course I only regret it cause me luck with relationships have been crap since then pretty much. C- A girl that actually lives around the corner from me. She actually hangs with a group of my friends I went to school with. I had always thought she was pretty cute, but was always involved, as was she then. She was also pretty young one then and not now. Last I knew, she was single and we did hang a couple times last year or so. My buddy was actually hinting to me how I should make a move.. this that.. etc, however, I didnt then, didnt feel like the right time..I could find out about her however rather easily....... So, thanks for reading, who do I ask out? name more than one if you want.. lol. Edited May 27, 2010 by Davr
somedude81 Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 I'm not going to read anything you wrote besides the title and the first sentence. It wouldn't change my answer. Which is Ask out all of them. If she's single, go for it. Don't try to bet on a sure thing. I've made that mistake too many times.
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